LGBT Youth Consult

Promoting mental well-being in LGBTQ youth


For many the beginning of a new year is a time to set goals and resolutions for the upcoming year. Often these resolutions are related to health, for example, quit smoking, work out more, lose weight. It is sometimes easy to overlook mental health and well-being as an integral part of overall wellness. This month’s column will focus on how as pediatric providers we can help promote the mental well-being of our patients in practice.

Mental health problems are a significant cause of morbidity and mortality in youth. In 2014, suicide was the second leading cause of death for all youth 10-14 years and 15-24 years.1 While most lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and questioning (LGBTQ) persons live healthy, happy lives, LGBTQ youth are at disproportionate risk for mental illness, probably related to lack of support and to stigma related to their sexual minority and gender minority identities. Studies suggest that LGBTQ youth have suicidality rates two to five times higher than their heterosexual cisgender peers.2,3,4

Dr. Gayathri Chelvakumar

Dr. Gayathri Chelvakumar

As pediatric providers, we can play an important role in screening for mental health concerns and identifying these concerns early so they can be addressed and treated. Pediatric providers also may be the first resource patients and families come to for assistance with mental health concerns. A recent article by Adelson et al. in Pediatric Clinics of North America discusses how the principles of care outlined by the American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry for the care of LGBT youth can be applied to pediatric practice.5,6 The principles and how they can be applied will be briefly reviewed here:

• Principle 1. A comprehensive diagnostic evaluation should include an age-appropriate assessment of psychosexual development for all youths.

While pediatric providers are unlikely to perform a comprehensive mental health diagnostic evaluation, psychosocial development should regularly be assessed at well visits. It may not be readily apparent which youth are struggling with development of their sexual and gender identity. Nonassuming questions regarding development in theses domains should ideally be integrated into the psychosocial assessment. For example, begin a sexual history by asking, “Are you romantically attracted to males, females, both, or neither?”

• Principle 2. The need for confidentiality in the clinical alliance is a special consideration in the assessment of sexual and gender minority youth.

Confidentiality is important when talking to any youth about their sexual and gender identity. LGBTQ youth in particular may have concerns of family or provider rejection, and they may look for cues that they can safely discuss their sexuality or gender identity without fear of being judged or shamed. Clinicians should be aware of confidentiality practices for minors when discussing these issues. Potential risks of premature disclosure to family and support systems, such as rejection or alienation, also should be considered.

• Principle 3. Family dynamics pertinent to sexual orientation, gender nonconformity, and gender identity should be explored in the context of the cultural values of the youth, family, and community.

Families can have a variety of responses to their child’s sexual minority or gender minority identity, ranging from acceptance to rejection, with some youth being forced to leave home. Many families need to alter their ideas and expectations for a child after their child comes out, and this can lead to feelings of loss and grief accompanied by feelings of anxiety, anger, shame, and guilt.5 Over time, however, the majority of families become affirming and supportive and are not distressed.7 Recognizing that family support reduces negative health outcomes for youth, providers should aim to support and preserve positive family relationships when possible. This may involve education and support for families as well as youth. It is important to be aware that sexual and gender minority youth who are also members of ethnic minorities may face additional challenges.

• Principle 4. Clinicians should inquire about circumstances commonly encountered by youth with sexual and gender minority status that confer increased psychiatric risk.

Providers should recognize that LGBTQ youth are at disproportionate risk of bullying, suicide, substance use, high-risk sexual behaviors, running away, and becoming homeless. Providers should assess for these risks and address them as appropriate.

• Principle 5. Clinicians should aim to foster healthy psychosexual development in sexual and gender minority youth, and protect these individuals’ full capacity for integrated identity formation and functioning.

Providers should support healthy youth development and self-discovery, recognizing that there is a spectrum of sexual and gender identities, with the goal of helping youth achieve their full developmental potential.

• Principle 6. Clinicians should be aware that there is no evidence that sexual orientation can be altered through therapy, and attempts to do so may be harmful.

Therapies targeted at altering sexual orientation or gender identity, often referred to as reparative therapies, can encourage family rejection and decrease self-esteem and connectedness, all of which have been identified as risk factors for suicidality. Providers should educate parents about the potential harm of these types of therapies and ensure that mental health providers to whom patients are being referred are not practicing these potentially harmful therapies.

• Principle 7. Clinicians should be aware of current evidence on the natural course of gender discordance and associated psychopathology in children and adolescents in choosing the treatment goals and modality.

Variation in gender role behavior (for example, dress preference, toy preference, types of play) is typical in early childhood and should be distinguished from gender dysphoria, in which a child expresses distress related to a gender identity that is different from or does not fully align with the child’s sex assigned at birth. Assessing gender development in childhood and the best approach to treatment is best done by professionals with experience and training in gender development, and providers should be familiar with resources in their area. For some, gender identity concerns may not be recognized until adolescence when the onset of puberty and secondary sex characteristics result in increased dysphoria. Best practice guidelines exist for treatment of youth with gender discordance, and there is limited but growing evidence to support best practices. Providers should ensure that the providers and specialists to whom families are referred practice according to current best practices.

• Principle 8. Clinicians should be prepared to consult and act as a liaison with schools, community agencies, and other health care providers, advocating for the unique needs of sexual and gender minority youth and their families.

Pediatric providers can work with mental health professionals to be advocates for their gender and sexual minority patients and raise awareness of issues affecting these special populations such as bullying and suicidality.

• Principle 9. Mental health professionals should be aware of community and professional resources relevant to sexual and gender minority youth.

As medical providers, we have a limited amount of time to see and assess patients, and often are able to best serve our patients and families by connecting them to specialists in the medical community and resources available in the school and community. It is important to know what resources exist in the community to be able to appropriately refer and connect patients.

Resources for providers

• American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry Practice Parameter on lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender youth .

National LGBT Health Education Center: Training materials and modules with continuing education credits.

Resources for families

Gay, Lesbian, and Straight Education Network.Parents, Friends, Families of Lesbians and Gays (PFLAG).


1. “10 Leading Causes of Death by Age Group, United States – 2014,” National Center for Injury Prevention and Control, Centers for Disease Control and Prevention.

2. Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender Health: LGBT Youth, Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, Nov. 12, 2014.

3. Am J Public Health. 2001 Aug;91(8):1276-81.

4. Am J Prev Med. 2012 Mar;42(3):221-8.

5. J. Am Acad Child Adolesc Psychiatry. 2012;51(9):957–74.

6. Pediatr Clin North Am. 2016 Dec;63(6):971-83.

7. “Mom, Dad. I’m Gay: How Families Negotiate Coming Out” (Washington, DC: American Psychological Association, 2001).

Dr. Chelvakumar is an attending physician in the division of adolescent medicine at Nationwide Children’s Hospital and an assistant professor of clinical pediatrics at the Ohio State University, both in Columbus.

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