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Family dinners are good medicine
Intuitively, we have come to believe that adding more to each family members’ schedule – a lesson, an activity, more homework time – is more enriching or meaningful than is a family dinner, which appears to have less direct impact. However, there is a growing body of evidence that, when an entire family eats dinner together 5 or more nights weekly, the emotional health and well-being of all family members is improved. Not only is their health improved, as there is a greater likelihood of eating nutritious food, but so are a child’s school performance and emotional well-being.
But less than 60% of children eat five or more meals with their parents each week (National Center on Addiction and Substance Abuse [CASA], 2012). Few people would suggest that encouraging families to eat dinner together is a bad idea, but time is the ultimate scarce resource. Preparing food and eating together takes time, and parents and children have many demands on that time that feel nonnegotiable, such as homework, exercise, team practice, or work obligations. When you meet with your patients and explain the tremendous health benefits of eating dinner together, you help your patients and their parents make informed decisions about how to rebalance time to prioritize family dinners that have real but fewer obvious impacts then do a piano lesson or dance class.
Of course, children who eat regular family dinners eat more fruits and vegetables and fewer fried foods and soft drinks than do their peers who eat dinner with their families less often. They are less likely to become obese in youth and more likely to eat healthily and maintain a healthy weight once they live on their own as adults.
Scientific evidence of the mental health benefits to children of eating meals with their families first emerged in the 1990s when the National Center on Addiction and Substance Abuse at Columbia University, New York, began surveying various family behaviors and correlating them with the risk of adolescent substance use and misuse. They found strong evidence that when families ate dinner together five or more times weekly (we’ll call this “frequent family dinners”), their adolescents were far less likely to initiate alcohol and cigarette use and less likely to regularly abuse alcohol and drugs. Subsequent studies have demonstrated that the protective effect may be greater for girls than boys and may be greater for alcohol, cigarettes, and marijuana than for other drugs. But earlier age of first use of substances substantially raises the risk of later addiction, so the health benefits of any delay in first use are significant.
Since CASA’s first studies in the 1990s, researchers began paying closer attention to family meals and a variety of psychiatric problems in youth. They demonstrated that frequent family dinners lowered the risk of other externalizing behaviors in youth, including risky sexual behaviors, threats of physical harm, aggression, fights leading to injury, and carrying or using a weapon.1,2 Frequent family dinners are associated with lower rates of disordered eating behaviors and disordered body image in adolescent girls.3,4 Multiple studies have found a powerful association between frequent family dinners and lower rates of depressive symptoms and suicide attempts in both male and female adolescents.1 Frequent family dinners even have been shown to mitigate against the risks of multiple poor health and academic outcomes in children with high adverse childhood experience (ACE) scores.5
Beyond protecting against problems, frequent family meals are associated with improved well-being and performance. Studies have demonstrated positive associations between frequent family meals and higher levels of self-esteem, self-efficacy, and well-being in adolescents, both male and female. They have consistently found significant associations between frequent family meals and higher grade point averages, commitment to learning, and rich vocabularies in children and adolescents, even after adjustment for demographic and other familial factors.6 And children are not the only ones who benefit. Frequent family meals even have been shown to be associated with higher self-reported levels of well-being and self-esteem, and lower levels of stress among parents.7,8 While investing the time in preparing meals and eating them together may sound stressful, it’s clear the benefits outweigh the risks for parents as well as for their children.
It is important to set the framework for what really matters in a family dinner so that your patients can enjoy all of these benefits. Parents may assume that the meal must be prepared from scratch with only fresh, local, or organic ingredients. But what matters most is that the food is delicious and nutritious, and that the time spent eating (and preparing it) is fun, and promotes conversation and connection. Homemade food usually is more nutritious and will bring more of the physical health benefits, but many store-bought ingredients or even take-out options can be healthy and can promote time for the family to sit together and connect. If parents enjoy preparing food, then it’s worthwhile! And they should not worry about having every member of the family together at every meal. Even if only one parent and child are present for a dinner, they each will enjoy the benefits.
Parents can use this time to help promote good habits in their children. Talking about why manners matter while practicing them at the table is powerful for young children. Let them know manners are how we show people that we care about them, whether by taking turns talking or chewing with our mouths closed! Older children and adolescents can learn about how effort is an essential ingredient in every important area in life, from school to meals. Tell them that sometimes the work or effort will be uncomfortable, and pitching in to share the effort lightens everyone’s load. When parents ask for help, they show their children how to do the same and that they have confidence in their child’s ability to be helpful.
Parents should share the joy of the effort, too! They can invite their young children to help with the meal preparation in age-appropriate ways: pulling herbs off of their stems, rinsing vegetables, sprinkling spices, or emptying a box of spaghetti into a pot of water. Older children feel honored to be given bigger responsibilities, such as carrying plates to the table or cutting vegetables (with supervision, when appropriate). And adolescents, exploring their interests and enjoying their independence, may enjoy building their own menus for the family, doing the shopping or leading the preparation of a dish or full meal themselves.
While there is a role for supporting good manners and helpful habits, help parents avoid getting into power struggles with their children over what they will eat or how they conduct themselves at the table. There should be reasonable rules and expectations around mealtime, and predictable, reasonable consequences. If children try a food and don’t like it, they can have a bowl of (nutritious) cereal and stay at the table with the family. Phones should not be allowed at the table, and televisions should be off during the meal (although music may enhance the sense of pleasure or celebration). Mealtime should be time for relaxing, listening, and connecting.
Offer some ideas about how to facilitate conversations. Asking about how a child’s day went may spark conversations sometimes, but usually people benefit from specific questions. What made you really laugh today? What did you have for lunch? Whom did you sit next to on the bus? If a parent starts by telling a story about his or her day, even better! This is especially potent if a parent talks about something embarrassing or challenging, or mentions a failure. Young children will have plenty of these stories, and adolescents build resilience by internalizing the idea that setbacks and difficulties are a normal, healthy part of every day. This is a great time to talk about current events, whether in the news, entertainment, or sports. And telling stories about when children were younger, when the parents were children, or even about grandparents or more distant ancestors is a wonderful way to engage children in the greater story of their family narrative, and is always engaging and memorable.
At a deeper level, the family dinner is a time that recognizes each person’s contribution to a discussion, and facilitates a calm discussion of the families’ history and values. There is connection, communication, and building of trust. Families that cannot schedule a minimum number of dinners or that have dinners filled with tension and conflict, are very likely to have children at risk. For those conflicted and often unhappy families, a pediatrician’s early recognition and intervention could make a meaningful difference.
Dr. Swick is physician in chief at Ohana, Center for Child and Adolescent Behavioral Health, Community Hospital of the Monterey (Calif.) Peninsula. Dr. Jellinek is professor emeritus of psychiatry and pediatrics, Harvard Medical School, Boston. Email them at pdnews@mdedge.com.
References
1. J Adolesc Health. 2006;39(3):337-45.
2. J Adolesc. 2010;33(1):187-96.
3. J Adolesc Health. 2009;44(5):431-6.
4. Health Psychol. 2008;27(Suppl 2):s109-17.
5. J Adolesc Health. 2009;45(4):389-95.
6. Pediatrics. 2019 Jul 8. doi: 10.1542/peds.2018-945.
7. Arch Pediatr Adolesc Med. 2004;158(8):792-6.
8. Prev Med. 2018;113:7-12.
Intuitively, we have come to believe that adding more to each family members’ schedule – a lesson, an activity, more homework time – is more enriching or meaningful than is a family dinner, which appears to have less direct impact. However, there is a growing body of evidence that, when an entire family eats dinner together 5 or more nights weekly, the emotional health and well-being of all family members is improved. Not only is their health improved, as there is a greater likelihood of eating nutritious food, but so are a child’s school performance and emotional well-being.
But less than 60% of children eat five or more meals with their parents each week (National Center on Addiction and Substance Abuse [CASA], 2012). Few people would suggest that encouraging families to eat dinner together is a bad idea, but time is the ultimate scarce resource. Preparing food and eating together takes time, and parents and children have many demands on that time that feel nonnegotiable, such as homework, exercise, team practice, or work obligations. When you meet with your patients and explain the tremendous health benefits of eating dinner together, you help your patients and their parents make informed decisions about how to rebalance time to prioritize family dinners that have real but fewer obvious impacts then do a piano lesson or dance class.
Of course, children who eat regular family dinners eat more fruits and vegetables and fewer fried foods and soft drinks than do their peers who eat dinner with their families less often. They are less likely to become obese in youth and more likely to eat healthily and maintain a healthy weight once they live on their own as adults.
Scientific evidence of the mental health benefits to children of eating meals with their families first emerged in the 1990s when the National Center on Addiction and Substance Abuse at Columbia University, New York, began surveying various family behaviors and correlating them with the risk of adolescent substance use and misuse. They found strong evidence that when families ate dinner together five or more times weekly (we’ll call this “frequent family dinners”), their adolescents were far less likely to initiate alcohol and cigarette use and less likely to regularly abuse alcohol and drugs. Subsequent studies have demonstrated that the protective effect may be greater for girls than boys and may be greater for alcohol, cigarettes, and marijuana than for other drugs. But earlier age of first use of substances substantially raises the risk of later addiction, so the health benefits of any delay in first use are significant.
Since CASA’s first studies in the 1990s, researchers began paying closer attention to family meals and a variety of psychiatric problems in youth. They demonstrated that frequent family dinners lowered the risk of other externalizing behaviors in youth, including risky sexual behaviors, threats of physical harm, aggression, fights leading to injury, and carrying or using a weapon.1,2 Frequent family dinners are associated with lower rates of disordered eating behaviors and disordered body image in adolescent girls.3,4 Multiple studies have found a powerful association between frequent family dinners and lower rates of depressive symptoms and suicide attempts in both male and female adolescents.1 Frequent family dinners even have been shown to mitigate against the risks of multiple poor health and academic outcomes in children with high adverse childhood experience (ACE) scores.5
Beyond protecting against problems, frequent family meals are associated with improved well-being and performance. Studies have demonstrated positive associations between frequent family meals and higher levels of self-esteem, self-efficacy, and well-being in adolescents, both male and female. They have consistently found significant associations between frequent family meals and higher grade point averages, commitment to learning, and rich vocabularies in children and adolescents, even after adjustment for demographic and other familial factors.6 And children are not the only ones who benefit. Frequent family meals even have been shown to be associated with higher self-reported levels of well-being and self-esteem, and lower levels of stress among parents.7,8 While investing the time in preparing meals and eating them together may sound stressful, it’s clear the benefits outweigh the risks for parents as well as for their children.
It is important to set the framework for what really matters in a family dinner so that your patients can enjoy all of these benefits. Parents may assume that the meal must be prepared from scratch with only fresh, local, or organic ingredients. But what matters most is that the food is delicious and nutritious, and that the time spent eating (and preparing it) is fun, and promotes conversation and connection. Homemade food usually is more nutritious and will bring more of the physical health benefits, but many store-bought ingredients or even take-out options can be healthy and can promote time for the family to sit together and connect. If parents enjoy preparing food, then it’s worthwhile! And they should not worry about having every member of the family together at every meal. Even if only one parent and child are present for a dinner, they each will enjoy the benefits.
Parents can use this time to help promote good habits in their children. Talking about why manners matter while practicing them at the table is powerful for young children. Let them know manners are how we show people that we care about them, whether by taking turns talking or chewing with our mouths closed! Older children and adolescents can learn about how effort is an essential ingredient in every important area in life, from school to meals. Tell them that sometimes the work or effort will be uncomfortable, and pitching in to share the effort lightens everyone’s load. When parents ask for help, they show their children how to do the same and that they have confidence in their child’s ability to be helpful.
Parents should share the joy of the effort, too! They can invite their young children to help with the meal preparation in age-appropriate ways: pulling herbs off of their stems, rinsing vegetables, sprinkling spices, or emptying a box of spaghetti into a pot of water. Older children feel honored to be given bigger responsibilities, such as carrying plates to the table or cutting vegetables (with supervision, when appropriate). And adolescents, exploring their interests and enjoying their independence, may enjoy building their own menus for the family, doing the shopping or leading the preparation of a dish or full meal themselves.
While there is a role for supporting good manners and helpful habits, help parents avoid getting into power struggles with their children over what they will eat or how they conduct themselves at the table. There should be reasonable rules and expectations around mealtime, and predictable, reasonable consequences. If children try a food and don’t like it, they can have a bowl of (nutritious) cereal and stay at the table with the family. Phones should not be allowed at the table, and televisions should be off during the meal (although music may enhance the sense of pleasure or celebration). Mealtime should be time for relaxing, listening, and connecting.
Offer some ideas about how to facilitate conversations. Asking about how a child’s day went may spark conversations sometimes, but usually people benefit from specific questions. What made you really laugh today? What did you have for lunch? Whom did you sit next to on the bus? If a parent starts by telling a story about his or her day, even better! This is especially potent if a parent talks about something embarrassing or challenging, or mentions a failure. Young children will have plenty of these stories, and adolescents build resilience by internalizing the idea that setbacks and difficulties are a normal, healthy part of every day. This is a great time to talk about current events, whether in the news, entertainment, or sports. And telling stories about when children were younger, when the parents were children, or even about grandparents or more distant ancestors is a wonderful way to engage children in the greater story of their family narrative, and is always engaging and memorable.
At a deeper level, the family dinner is a time that recognizes each person’s contribution to a discussion, and facilitates a calm discussion of the families’ history and values. There is connection, communication, and building of trust. Families that cannot schedule a minimum number of dinners or that have dinners filled with tension and conflict, are very likely to have children at risk. For those conflicted and often unhappy families, a pediatrician’s early recognition and intervention could make a meaningful difference.
Dr. Swick is physician in chief at Ohana, Center for Child and Adolescent Behavioral Health, Community Hospital of the Monterey (Calif.) Peninsula. Dr. Jellinek is professor emeritus of psychiatry and pediatrics, Harvard Medical School, Boston. Email them at pdnews@mdedge.com.
References
1. J Adolesc Health. 2006;39(3):337-45.
2. J Adolesc. 2010;33(1):187-96.
3. J Adolesc Health. 2009;44(5):431-6.
4. Health Psychol. 2008;27(Suppl 2):s109-17.
5. J Adolesc Health. 2009;45(4):389-95.
6. Pediatrics. 2019 Jul 8. doi: 10.1542/peds.2018-945.
7. Arch Pediatr Adolesc Med. 2004;158(8):792-6.
8. Prev Med. 2018;113:7-12.
Intuitively, we have come to believe that adding more to each family members’ schedule – a lesson, an activity, more homework time – is more enriching or meaningful than is a family dinner, which appears to have less direct impact. However, there is a growing body of evidence that, when an entire family eats dinner together 5 or more nights weekly, the emotional health and well-being of all family members is improved. Not only is their health improved, as there is a greater likelihood of eating nutritious food, but so are a child’s school performance and emotional well-being.
But less than 60% of children eat five or more meals with their parents each week (National Center on Addiction and Substance Abuse [CASA], 2012). Few people would suggest that encouraging families to eat dinner together is a bad idea, but time is the ultimate scarce resource. Preparing food and eating together takes time, and parents and children have many demands on that time that feel nonnegotiable, such as homework, exercise, team practice, or work obligations. When you meet with your patients and explain the tremendous health benefits of eating dinner together, you help your patients and their parents make informed decisions about how to rebalance time to prioritize family dinners that have real but fewer obvious impacts then do a piano lesson or dance class.
Of course, children who eat regular family dinners eat more fruits and vegetables and fewer fried foods and soft drinks than do their peers who eat dinner with their families less often. They are less likely to become obese in youth and more likely to eat healthily and maintain a healthy weight once they live on their own as adults.
Scientific evidence of the mental health benefits to children of eating meals with their families first emerged in the 1990s when the National Center on Addiction and Substance Abuse at Columbia University, New York, began surveying various family behaviors and correlating them with the risk of adolescent substance use and misuse. They found strong evidence that when families ate dinner together five or more times weekly (we’ll call this “frequent family dinners”), their adolescents were far less likely to initiate alcohol and cigarette use and less likely to regularly abuse alcohol and drugs. Subsequent studies have demonstrated that the protective effect may be greater for girls than boys and may be greater for alcohol, cigarettes, and marijuana than for other drugs. But earlier age of first use of substances substantially raises the risk of later addiction, so the health benefits of any delay in first use are significant.
Since CASA’s first studies in the 1990s, researchers began paying closer attention to family meals and a variety of psychiatric problems in youth. They demonstrated that frequent family dinners lowered the risk of other externalizing behaviors in youth, including risky sexual behaviors, threats of physical harm, aggression, fights leading to injury, and carrying or using a weapon.1,2 Frequent family dinners are associated with lower rates of disordered eating behaviors and disordered body image in adolescent girls.3,4 Multiple studies have found a powerful association between frequent family dinners and lower rates of depressive symptoms and suicide attempts in both male and female adolescents.1 Frequent family dinners even have been shown to mitigate against the risks of multiple poor health and academic outcomes in children with high adverse childhood experience (ACE) scores.5
Beyond protecting against problems, frequent family meals are associated with improved well-being and performance. Studies have demonstrated positive associations between frequent family meals and higher levels of self-esteem, self-efficacy, and well-being in adolescents, both male and female. They have consistently found significant associations between frequent family meals and higher grade point averages, commitment to learning, and rich vocabularies in children and adolescents, even after adjustment for demographic and other familial factors.6 And children are not the only ones who benefit. Frequent family meals even have been shown to be associated with higher self-reported levels of well-being and self-esteem, and lower levels of stress among parents.7,8 While investing the time in preparing meals and eating them together may sound stressful, it’s clear the benefits outweigh the risks for parents as well as for their children.
It is important to set the framework for what really matters in a family dinner so that your patients can enjoy all of these benefits. Parents may assume that the meal must be prepared from scratch with only fresh, local, or organic ingredients. But what matters most is that the food is delicious and nutritious, and that the time spent eating (and preparing it) is fun, and promotes conversation and connection. Homemade food usually is more nutritious and will bring more of the physical health benefits, but many store-bought ingredients or even take-out options can be healthy and can promote time for the family to sit together and connect. If parents enjoy preparing food, then it’s worthwhile! And they should not worry about having every member of the family together at every meal. Even if only one parent and child are present for a dinner, they each will enjoy the benefits.
Parents can use this time to help promote good habits in their children. Talking about why manners matter while practicing them at the table is powerful for young children. Let them know manners are how we show people that we care about them, whether by taking turns talking or chewing with our mouths closed! Older children and adolescents can learn about how effort is an essential ingredient in every important area in life, from school to meals. Tell them that sometimes the work or effort will be uncomfortable, and pitching in to share the effort lightens everyone’s load. When parents ask for help, they show their children how to do the same and that they have confidence in their child’s ability to be helpful.
Parents should share the joy of the effort, too! They can invite their young children to help with the meal preparation in age-appropriate ways: pulling herbs off of their stems, rinsing vegetables, sprinkling spices, or emptying a box of spaghetti into a pot of water. Older children feel honored to be given bigger responsibilities, such as carrying plates to the table or cutting vegetables (with supervision, when appropriate). And adolescents, exploring their interests and enjoying their independence, may enjoy building their own menus for the family, doing the shopping or leading the preparation of a dish or full meal themselves.
While there is a role for supporting good manners and helpful habits, help parents avoid getting into power struggles with their children over what they will eat or how they conduct themselves at the table. There should be reasonable rules and expectations around mealtime, and predictable, reasonable consequences. If children try a food and don’t like it, they can have a bowl of (nutritious) cereal and stay at the table with the family. Phones should not be allowed at the table, and televisions should be off during the meal (although music may enhance the sense of pleasure or celebration). Mealtime should be time for relaxing, listening, and connecting.
Offer some ideas about how to facilitate conversations. Asking about how a child’s day went may spark conversations sometimes, but usually people benefit from specific questions. What made you really laugh today? What did you have for lunch? Whom did you sit next to on the bus? If a parent starts by telling a story about his or her day, even better! This is especially potent if a parent talks about something embarrassing or challenging, or mentions a failure. Young children will have plenty of these stories, and adolescents build resilience by internalizing the idea that setbacks and difficulties are a normal, healthy part of every day. This is a great time to talk about current events, whether in the news, entertainment, or sports. And telling stories about when children were younger, when the parents were children, or even about grandparents or more distant ancestors is a wonderful way to engage children in the greater story of their family narrative, and is always engaging and memorable.
At a deeper level, the family dinner is a time that recognizes each person’s contribution to a discussion, and facilitates a calm discussion of the families’ history and values. There is connection, communication, and building of trust. Families that cannot schedule a minimum number of dinners or that have dinners filled with tension and conflict, are very likely to have children at risk. For those conflicted and often unhappy families, a pediatrician’s early recognition and intervention could make a meaningful difference.
Dr. Swick is physician in chief at Ohana, Center for Child and Adolescent Behavioral Health, Community Hospital of the Monterey (Calif.) Peninsula. Dr. Jellinek is professor emeritus of psychiatry and pediatrics, Harvard Medical School, Boston. Email them at pdnews@mdedge.com.
References
1. J Adolesc Health. 2006;39(3):337-45.
2. J Adolesc. 2010;33(1):187-96.
3. J Adolesc Health. 2009;44(5):431-6.
4. Health Psychol. 2008;27(Suppl 2):s109-17.
5. J Adolesc Health. 2009;45(4):389-95.
6. Pediatrics. 2019 Jul 8. doi: 10.1542/peds.2018-945.
7. Arch Pediatr Adolesc Med. 2004;158(8):792-6.
8. Prev Med. 2018;113:7-12.
Is there an epidemic of anxiety and depression among today’s adolescents?
It seems that every week there are fresh headlines about a mental health crisis in children and adolescents, reporting exploding rates of severe anxiety and depression in youth. These reports raise the question of whether or not there has been a significant change in their incidence: Are more children developing depressive and anxiety disorders? Are they having greater difficulty accessing care? Are the disorders more severe than they were in the past? Or are young people failing to develop appropriate skills to manage anxiety, sadness, and other forms of distress that are a normal (if unpleasant) part of life? These are important questions, as they will help us to advocate for the proper services to address the public health challenge that underlies this “epidemic.”
What do the data show?
It is important to start by noting that epidemiologic data on child psychiatry in the United States are not as robust as we might like. It was only in 1999 that the Surgeon General’s Report on Mental Health articulated that there was a need for a more systematic approach to collecting epidemiologic data on psychiatric illness in children and adolescents. At that time, the consensus was that approximately one in five children would develop a psychiatric illness by the age of 18 and that approximately 5% of all children would experience a severe or persistent mental illness.1 In the 2 decades since then there have been expanded efforts to collect data, including the addition of an adolescent supplement to the National Comorbidity Survey sponsored by the National Institute of Mental Health, although our current estimates still are based on representative surveys of thousands of U.S. children and teenagers, often with questionnaires filled out by their parents. Thus, we may have overestimates of some behavioral disorders that are obvious and of concern to parents or underestimates of certain internalizing disorders such as depression that can remain unstated and contained in the mind of the adolescent. And even with accurate current estimates, our ability to make statements about trends or changes in rates of disease is limited by the very short period of time in which we have been studying these disease rates in U.S. youth, some changes in definitions, and the unknown impact of increasing recognition rather than true change in incidence.
What is unequivocally clear is that psychiatric illnesses usually present in youth and that these illnesses are among the most common illnesses of youth. Current estimates are that nearly one in four young people will have a psychiatric illness (by The Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders [DSM], Fifth Edition criteria) by the time they turn 18,2 although only 10% of youth will experience an illness that meets the Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration criteria for a serious emotional disturbance, or one that has a substantial impact on a child’s ability to function socially, emotionally, and academically.3
While it once was believed that children did not experience psychiatric illness, we now know that the majority of psychiatric illnesses present during childhood, adolescence, and young adulthood. The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention estimates that 50% of lifetime psychiatric illness has presented by the age of 15 years and 75% by the age of 24. Only one-quarter of all lifetime psychiatric illnesses emerge in full adulthood, or after the age of 24. Early diagnosis and treatment can make a significant difference in the overall impact of serious illnesses such as schizophrenia and bipolar disorder. We also can state with confidence that anxiety disorders are the most common psychiatric illnesses of youth, making up over 30% of all diagnoses, followed by disorders of behavior (19%), mood (14%), and then substance use (11%).4 Even compared with asthma (with a prevalence of approximately 11%), widely considered to be among the most common disease of childhood, psychiatric illnesses are the most common in youth.
The question then is whether these numbers are changing. The National Comorbidity Survey conducted in 2014 found that the incidence of major depressive episodes in adolescents had increased significantly between 2005 and 2014, from 9% to 11%.5 This is a survey of nearly 200,000 youth across the United States, interviewed by phone with a structured questionnaire assessing their (self-reported) DSM criteria for a major depressive episode, along with other illnesses. During this time frame, access to specialty mental health providers increased among adolescents, alongside their rate of use of psychiatric medications and inpatient hospitalization.
In Europe, where they have more robust epidemiological data, there also has been a public perception of an increase in depression in adolescents. Studies there have suggested that prevalence rates have not changed significantly, and that the problem actually may be a function of a growing population, greater public awareness, and higher rates of psychological distress.6
In the United States, it is difficult to place the prevalence rates in a meaningful context, given the shorter time frame during which we have been following these rates in young people. It is worth highlighting that although the rates at which young people are gaining access to mental health clinicians, being prescribed medications, and being admitted to psychiatric hospitals all have increased, there has not been an associated decrease in the rate of illness or in the severity of symptoms. It certainly is possible that the increase in use of services by youth is being driven by the increased prevalence of this diagnosis, or it may be that other factors, such as those detailed in international studies, are driving this increase in the incidence of depression.
What about the suicide rate?
Another statistic that addressed the question of whether there may be an epidemic of anxiety and depression in adolescents is the recent increase in the suicide rate. While the rate of completed suicide in 15- to 24-year-olds has been trending upward over the last decade, it is worth noting that this phenomenon appears to be occurring across age groups and is not isolated to adolescents. While adolescents may have a unique underlying set of issues driving the increase, it also may be that factors affecting the entire population (access to firearms, the epidemic of opioid addiction) may be at the core of this worrisome trend.
What about the role of stress?
It is worth noting that there is evidence of an increased rate of psychological distress in adolescents and young adults separate from any increase in the rate of psychiatric illness. Surveys of adolescents in high school and entering college demonstrate higher self-reported rates of severe stress and anxiety. One survey from the American Psychological Association from August 2018 found teenagers reporting higher levels of stress and related sadness and anxiety than the levels among the adults who were surveyed. So more young people are struggling with feelings of anxiety and sadness, without necessarily meeting criteria for a psychiatric illness. This suggests that levels of external stressors may have increased, or that the establishment of healthy coping skills has somehow been compromised in young people, or both.
What can you do as a clinician?
While the broader question of whether actual incidence rates of depression are on the rise will not be settled any time soon, when a patient of yours complains of high levels of stress, anxiety, or feelings of depression, it is very possible that the individual has a psychiatric diagnosis. A quick screening evaluation, using a questionnaire such as the Pediatric Symptom Checklist and/or a brief interview, can indicate if the patient may benefit from a referral.
In addition, all children, including those who have a psychiatric diagnosis, will benefit from a calm, patient, supportive adult who is interested in their distress. It would be very helpful if you are ready to talk about healthy coping skills, and how they are developed over time and only in the setting of actually struggling with some adversity. Help them frame their source of stress as a challenge rather than a threat. Help them identify their meaningful supports, particularly adults who know them well, and offer concrete and practical advice and motivation. And remind them about how self-care is essential to managing the normal stress of adolescence. Have handouts (or virtual ones) ready on good sleep hygiene, the value of exercise, and fact-based nutritional guidance. Offer strategies to manage screen time so that it is a recharging break and not a time sink. Support their identification of other strategies to decompress and manage stress: Are they recharged by time with friends? Exercise? Playing music? Listening to music? Playing video games? They should be building their personalized list, and it should include more active as well as passive strategies. Educate them about the risks of using drugs and alcohol “to relax,” or only having one way of unwinding. Educate your patients and parents about the special value of a mindfulness practice, whether meditation, yoga, or any activity in which they practice a nonjudgmental observation and acceptance of strong emotions.
Accurate prevalence rates can help us consider the statistical probability of a psychiatric diagnosis. By talking with your patients about stressful feelings, you can consider the individual need for a fuller psychiatric evaluation while also helping them reframe their approach to stress to one that is more empowering, adaptive, and healthy.
Dr. Swick is physician in chief at Ohana, Center for Child and Adolescent Behavioral Health, Community Hospital of the Monterey (Calif.) Peninsula. Dr. Jellinek is professor emeritus of psychiatry and pediatrics, Harvard Medical School, Boston. Email them at pdnews@mdedge.com.
References
1. Mental Health: A Report of the Surgeon General, National Institutes of Mental Health (1999).
2. Prevalence of psychiatric disorders in childhood and adolescence, in “Mental Health Services: A Public Health Perspective,” 2nd ed. (Oxford, UK: Oxford University Press; 2004, pp. 111-28).
3. Public Health Rep. 2006 May-Jun;121(3):303-10.
4. J Am Acad Child Adolesc Psychiatry. 2010 Oct;49(10):980-9.
5. Pediatrics. 2016 Dec;138(6):e20161878.
6. Depress Anxiety. 2014 Jun;31(6):506-16.
It seems that every week there are fresh headlines about a mental health crisis in children and adolescents, reporting exploding rates of severe anxiety and depression in youth. These reports raise the question of whether or not there has been a significant change in their incidence: Are more children developing depressive and anxiety disorders? Are they having greater difficulty accessing care? Are the disorders more severe than they were in the past? Or are young people failing to develop appropriate skills to manage anxiety, sadness, and other forms of distress that are a normal (if unpleasant) part of life? These are important questions, as they will help us to advocate for the proper services to address the public health challenge that underlies this “epidemic.”
What do the data show?
It is important to start by noting that epidemiologic data on child psychiatry in the United States are not as robust as we might like. It was only in 1999 that the Surgeon General’s Report on Mental Health articulated that there was a need for a more systematic approach to collecting epidemiologic data on psychiatric illness in children and adolescents. At that time, the consensus was that approximately one in five children would develop a psychiatric illness by the age of 18 and that approximately 5% of all children would experience a severe or persistent mental illness.1 In the 2 decades since then there have been expanded efforts to collect data, including the addition of an adolescent supplement to the National Comorbidity Survey sponsored by the National Institute of Mental Health, although our current estimates still are based on representative surveys of thousands of U.S. children and teenagers, often with questionnaires filled out by their parents. Thus, we may have overestimates of some behavioral disorders that are obvious and of concern to parents or underestimates of certain internalizing disorders such as depression that can remain unstated and contained in the mind of the adolescent. And even with accurate current estimates, our ability to make statements about trends or changes in rates of disease is limited by the very short period of time in which we have been studying these disease rates in U.S. youth, some changes in definitions, and the unknown impact of increasing recognition rather than true change in incidence.
What is unequivocally clear is that psychiatric illnesses usually present in youth and that these illnesses are among the most common illnesses of youth. Current estimates are that nearly one in four young people will have a psychiatric illness (by The Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders [DSM], Fifth Edition criteria) by the time they turn 18,2 although only 10% of youth will experience an illness that meets the Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration criteria for a serious emotional disturbance, or one that has a substantial impact on a child’s ability to function socially, emotionally, and academically.3
While it once was believed that children did not experience psychiatric illness, we now know that the majority of psychiatric illnesses present during childhood, adolescence, and young adulthood. The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention estimates that 50% of lifetime psychiatric illness has presented by the age of 15 years and 75% by the age of 24. Only one-quarter of all lifetime psychiatric illnesses emerge in full adulthood, or after the age of 24. Early diagnosis and treatment can make a significant difference in the overall impact of serious illnesses such as schizophrenia and bipolar disorder. We also can state with confidence that anxiety disorders are the most common psychiatric illnesses of youth, making up over 30% of all diagnoses, followed by disorders of behavior (19%), mood (14%), and then substance use (11%).4 Even compared with asthma (with a prevalence of approximately 11%), widely considered to be among the most common disease of childhood, psychiatric illnesses are the most common in youth.
The question then is whether these numbers are changing. The National Comorbidity Survey conducted in 2014 found that the incidence of major depressive episodes in adolescents had increased significantly between 2005 and 2014, from 9% to 11%.5 This is a survey of nearly 200,000 youth across the United States, interviewed by phone with a structured questionnaire assessing their (self-reported) DSM criteria for a major depressive episode, along with other illnesses. During this time frame, access to specialty mental health providers increased among adolescents, alongside their rate of use of psychiatric medications and inpatient hospitalization.
In Europe, where they have more robust epidemiological data, there also has been a public perception of an increase in depression in adolescents. Studies there have suggested that prevalence rates have not changed significantly, and that the problem actually may be a function of a growing population, greater public awareness, and higher rates of psychological distress.6
In the United States, it is difficult to place the prevalence rates in a meaningful context, given the shorter time frame during which we have been following these rates in young people. It is worth highlighting that although the rates at which young people are gaining access to mental health clinicians, being prescribed medications, and being admitted to psychiatric hospitals all have increased, there has not been an associated decrease in the rate of illness or in the severity of symptoms. It certainly is possible that the increase in use of services by youth is being driven by the increased prevalence of this diagnosis, or it may be that other factors, such as those detailed in international studies, are driving this increase in the incidence of depression.
What about the suicide rate?
Another statistic that addressed the question of whether there may be an epidemic of anxiety and depression in adolescents is the recent increase in the suicide rate. While the rate of completed suicide in 15- to 24-year-olds has been trending upward over the last decade, it is worth noting that this phenomenon appears to be occurring across age groups and is not isolated to adolescents. While adolescents may have a unique underlying set of issues driving the increase, it also may be that factors affecting the entire population (access to firearms, the epidemic of opioid addiction) may be at the core of this worrisome trend.
What about the role of stress?
It is worth noting that there is evidence of an increased rate of psychological distress in adolescents and young adults separate from any increase in the rate of psychiatric illness. Surveys of adolescents in high school and entering college demonstrate higher self-reported rates of severe stress and anxiety. One survey from the American Psychological Association from August 2018 found teenagers reporting higher levels of stress and related sadness and anxiety than the levels among the adults who were surveyed. So more young people are struggling with feelings of anxiety and sadness, without necessarily meeting criteria for a psychiatric illness. This suggests that levels of external stressors may have increased, or that the establishment of healthy coping skills has somehow been compromised in young people, or both.
What can you do as a clinician?
While the broader question of whether actual incidence rates of depression are on the rise will not be settled any time soon, when a patient of yours complains of high levels of stress, anxiety, or feelings of depression, it is very possible that the individual has a psychiatric diagnosis. A quick screening evaluation, using a questionnaire such as the Pediatric Symptom Checklist and/or a brief interview, can indicate if the patient may benefit from a referral.
In addition, all children, including those who have a psychiatric diagnosis, will benefit from a calm, patient, supportive adult who is interested in their distress. It would be very helpful if you are ready to talk about healthy coping skills, and how they are developed over time and only in the setting of actually struggling with some adversity. Help them frame their source of stress as a challenge rather than a threat. Help them identify their meaningful supports, particularly adults who know them well, and offer concrete and practical advice and motivation. And remind them about how self-care is essential to managing the normal stress of adolescence. Have handouts (or virtual ones) ready on good sleep hygiene, the value of exercise, and fact-based nutritional guidance. Offer strategies to manage screen time so that it is a recharging break and not a time sink. Support their identification of other strategies to decompress and manage stress: Are they recharged by time with friends? Exercise? Playing music? Listening to music? Playing video games? They should be building their personalized list, and it should include more active as well as passive strategies. Educate them about the risks of using drugs and alcohol “to relax,” or only having one way of unwinding. Educate your patients and parents about the special value of a mindfulness practice, whether meditation, yoga, or any activity in which they practice a nonjudgmental observation and acceptance of strong emotions.
Accurate prevalence rates can help us consider the statistical probability of a psychiatric diagnosis. By talking with your patients about stressful feelings, you can consider the individual need for a fuller psychiatric evaluation while also helping them reframe their approach to stress to one that is more empowering, adaptive, and healthy.
Dr. Swick is physician in chief at Ohana, Center for Child and Adolescent Behavioral Health, Community Hospital of the Monterey (Calif.) Peninsula. Dr. Jellinek is professor emeritus of psychiatry and pediatrics, Harvard Medical School, Boston. Email them at pdnews@mdedge.com.
References
1. Mental Health: A Report of the Surgeon General, National Institutes of Mental Health (1999).
2. Prevalence of psychiatric disorders in childhood and adolescence, in “Mental Health Services: A Public Health Perspective,” 2nd ed. (Oxford, UK: Oxford University Press; 2004, pp. 111-28).
3. Public Health Rep. 2006 May-Jun;121(3):303-10.
4. J Am Acad Child Adolesc Psychiatry. 2010 Oct;49(10):980-9.
5. Pediatrics. 2016 Dec;138(6):e20161878.
6. Depress Anxiety. 2014 Jun;31(6):506-16.
It seems that every week there are fresh headlines about a mental health crisis in children and adolescents, reporting exploding rates of severe anxiety and depression in youth. These reports raise the question of whether or not there has been a significant change in their incidence: Are more children developing depressive and anxiety disorders? Are they having greater difficulty accessing care? Are the disorders more severe than they were in the past? Or are young people failing to develop appropriate skills to manage anxiety, sadness, and other forms of distress that are a normal (if unpleasant) part of life? These are important questions, as they will help us to advocate for the proper services to address the public health challenge that underlies this “epidemic.”
What do the data show?
It is important to start by noting that epidemiologic data on child psychiatry in the United States are not as robust as we might like. It was only in 1999 that the Surgeon General’s Report on Mental Health articulated that there was a need for a more systematic approach to collecting epidemiologic data on psychiatric illness in children and adolescents. At that time, the consensus was that approximately one in five children would develop a psychiatric illness by the age of 18 and that approximately 5% of all children would experience a severe or persistent mental illness.1 In the 2 decades since then there have been expanded efforts to collect data, including the addition of an adolescent supplement to the National Comorbidity Survey sponsored by the National Institute of Mental Health, although our current estimates still are based on representative surveys of thousands of U.S. children and teenagers, often with questionnaires filled out by their parents. Thus, we may have overestimates of some behavioral disorders that are obvious and of concern to parents or underestimates of certain internalizing disorders such as depression that can remain unstated and contained in the mind of the adolescent. And even with accurate current estimates, our ability to make statements about trends or changes in rates of disease is limited by the very short period of time in which we have been studying these disease rates in U.S. youth, some changes in definitions, and the unknown impact of increasing recognition rather than true change in incidence.
What is unequivocally clear is that psychiatric illnesses usually present in youth and that these illnesses are among the most common illnesses of youth. Current estimates are that nearly one in four young people will have a psychiatric illness (by The Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders [DSM], Fifth Edition criteria) by the time they turn 18,2 although only 10% of youth will experience an illness that meets the Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration criteria for a serious emotional disturbance, or one that has a substantial impact on a child’s ability to function socially, emotionally, and academically.3
While it once was believed that children did not experience psychiatric illness, we now know that the majority of psychiatric illnesses present during childhood, adolescence, and young adulthood. The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention estimates that 50% of lifetime psychiatric illness has presented by the age of 15 years and 75% by the age of 24. Only one-quarter of all lifetime psychiatric illnesses emerge in full adulthood, or after the age of 24. Early diagnosis and treatment can make a significant difference in the overall impact of serious illnesses such as schizophrenia and bipolar disorder. We also can state with confidence that anxiety disorders are the most common psychiatric illnesses of youth, making up over 30% of all diagnoses, followed by disorders of behavior (19%), mood (14%), and then substance use (11%).4 Even compared with asthma (with a prevalence of approximately 11%), widely considered to be among the most common disease of childhood, psychiatric illnesses are the most common in youth.
The question then is whether these numbers are changing. The National Comorbidity Survey conducted in 2014 found that the incidence of major depressive episodes in adolescents had increased significantly between 2005 and 2014, from 9% to 11%.5 This is a survey of nearly 200,000 youth across the United States, interviewed by phone with a structured questionnaire assessing their (self-reported) DSM criteria for a major depressive episode, along with other illnesses. During this time frame, access to specialty mental health providers increased among adolescents, alongside their rate of use of psychiatric medications and inpatient hospitalization.
In Europe, where they have more robust epidemiological data, there also has been a public perception of an increase in depression in adolescents. Studies there have suggested that prevalence rates have not changed significantly, and that the problem actually may be a function of a growing population, greater public awareness, and higher rates of psychological distress.6
In the United States, it is difficult to place the prevalence rates in a meaningful context, given the shorter time frame during which we have been following these rates in young people. It is worth highlighting that although the rates at which young people are gaining access to mental health clinicians, being prescribed medications, and being admitted to psychiatric hospitals all have increased, there has not been an associated decrease in the rate of illness or in the severity of symptoms. It certainly is possible that the increase in use of services by youth is being driven by the increased prevalence of this diagnosis, or it may be that other factors, such as those detailed in international studies, are driving this increase in the incidence of depression.
What about the suicide rate?
Another statistic that addressed the question of whether there may be an epidemic of anxiety and depression in adolescents is the recent increase in the suicide rate. While the rate of completed suicide in 15- to 24-year-olds has been trending upward over the last decade, it is worth noting that this phenomenon appears to be occurring across age groups and is not isolated to adolescents. While adolescents may have a unique underlying set of issues driving the increase, it also may be that factors affecting the entire population (access to firearms, the epidemic of opioid addiction) may be at the core of this worrisome trend.
What about the role of stress?
It is worth noting that there is evidence of an increased rate of psychological distress in adolescents and young adults separate from any increase in the rate of psychiatric illness. Surveys of adolescents in high school and entering college demonstrate higher self-reported rates of severe stress and anxiety. One survey from the American Psychological Association from August 2018 found teenagers reporting higher levels of stress and related sadness and anxiety than the levels among the adults who were surveyed. So more young people are struggling with feelings of anxiety and sadness, without necessarily meeting criteria for a psychiatric illness. This suggests that levels of external stressors may have increased, or that the establishment of healthy coping skills has somehow been compromised in young people, or both.
What can you do as a clinician?
While the broader question of whether actual incidence rates of depression are on the rise will not be settled any time soon, when a patient of yours complains of high levels of stress, anxiety, or feelings of depression, it is very possible that the individual has a psychiatric diagnosis. A quick screening evaluation, using a questionnaire such as the Pediatric Symptom Checklist and/or a brief interview, can indicate if the patient may benefit from a referral.
In addition, all children, including those who have a psychiatric diagnosis, will benefit from a calm, patient, supportive adult who is interested in their distress. It would be very helpful if you are ready to talk about healthy coping skills, and how they are developed over time and only in the setting of actually struggling with some adversity. Help them frame their source of stress as a challenge rather than a threat. Help them identify their meaningful supports, particularly adults who know them well, and offer concrete and practical advice and motivation. And remind them about how self-care is essential to managing the normal stress of adolescence. Have handouts (or virtual ones) ready on good sleep hygiene, the value of exercise, and fact-based nutritional guidance. Offer strategies to manage screen time so that it is a recharging break and not a time sink. Support their identification of other strategies to decompress and manage stress: Are they recharged by time with friends? Exercise? Playing music? Listening to music? Playing video games? They should be building their personalized list, and it should include more active as well as passive strategies. Educate them about the risks of using drugs and alcohol “to relax,” or only having one way of unwinding. Educate your patients and parents about the special value of a mindfulness practice, whether meditation, yoga, or any activity in which they practice a nonjudgmental observation and acceptance of strong emotions.
Accurate prevalence rates can help us consider the statistical probability of a psychiatric diagnosis. By talking with your patients about stressful feelings, you can consider the individual need for a fuller psychiatric evaluation while also helping them reframe their approach to stress to one that is more empowering, adaptive, and healthy.
Dr. Swick is physician in chief at Ohana, Center for Child and Adolescent Behavioral Health, Community Hospital of the Monterey (Calif.) Peninsula. Dr. Jellinek is professor emeritus of psychiatry and pediatrics, Harvard Medical School, Boston. Email them at pdnews@mdedge.com.
References
1. Mental Health: A Report of the Surgeon General, National Institutes of Mental Health (1999).
2. Prevalence of psychiatric disorders in childhood and adolescence, in “Mental Health Services: A Public Health Perspective,” 2nd ed. (Oxford, UK: Oxford University Press; 2004, pp. 111-28).
3. Public Health Rep. 2006 May-Jun;121(3):303-10.
4. J Am Acad Child Adolesc Psychiatry. 2010 Oct;49(10):980-9.
5. Pediatrics. 2016 Dec;138(6):e20161878.
6. Depress Anxiety. 2014 Jun;31(6):506-16.
Failure to launch can happen to college students
March often is the time of year when college freshmen truly begin to feel comfortable in their new settings. Many students report feeling excited to get back to campus after the long winter break, and once into their second semester, they feel more comfortable with the independence from family and high school supports. It also is a time for some college freshmen to return home after failing to manage this major transition.
Of the latter group, many will have had difficult months of depression, anxiety, or substance use, and most will be suffering from a deep sense of shame after failing to navigate this long-anticipated transition.
Some students will report a great social experience, but academic struggles. They will report some normal ups and downs emotionally, but most of their distress will have been focused on their academic performance. Many 18-year-olds have not had to organize their time and effort around homework without the attention and support of parents and teachers. College often has much bigger classes, with less personal attention. There is a lot of assigned reading, but no regular incremental homework, only a major midterm and final exam, or a substantial paper. For a student who gets anxious about performance, or one with organizational challenges, this can lead to procrastination and poor performance.
Find out details about how they did academically. Did they fail one class or many classes? Did they receive some incompletes in their first semester and then struggle to catch up with them while keeping up with their second semester work? Did they have tutoring or support? Were they unrealistic about their course load? Or did they have their first serious relationship and not spend enough time on homework? Did they spend too much time partying with their new friends and not enough time sleeping and getting their homework done?
It is important to dig deeper if patients report regular or binge drug and alcohol use that interfered with their academic performance, as they may need more substantial substance use disorder treatment. Most students, though, will not have a substance use disorder. Instead, their academic failure could represent something as simple as the need for more academic support and time management support. Many schools have such programs to help students learn how to better manage their time and effort as they take fuller responsibility than they had for it in high school.
For other students, you will learn that their emotional distress preceded their academic troubles. The stress of the transition to college may be enough to trigger an episode of depression or to exacerbate a mood or anxiety disorder that was subclinical or in remission before school started. These students usually will report that sadness, intense anxiety, or loss of interest came early in their semester; perhaps they were even doing well academically when these problems started.
Ask about how their sleep was. Often they had difficulty falling asleep or woke up often at night, unlike most college students, whose sleep is compromised because they stay up late with new friends or because they are hard at work, but could easily sleep at any time.
Find out about their eating habits. Did they lose their appetite? Lose weight? Did they become preoccupied with weight or body image issues and begin restricting their intake? Eating disorders can begin in college when vulnerable students are stressed and have more control over their diet. While weight gain is more common in freshman year, it often is connected to poor stress management skills, and is more often a marker of a student who was struggling academically and then managing stress by overeating.
In the case where the distress came first, it is critical that your patients have a thorough psychiatric evaluation and treatment. It may be possible for them to return to school quickly, but it is most important that they are engaged in effective treatment and in at last partial remission before adding to their stress by attempting to return to school. Often, ambitious students and their parents need to hear this message very clearly from a pediatrician. A rushed return to school may be a set-up for a more protracted and difficult course of illness. For these students, it may be better to have a fresh start in a new semester. Help them (and their parents) to understand that they should use their time off to focus on treatment and good self-care so they might benefit from the many opportunities of college.
For a small minority of college students who do not succeed at college, their social withdrawal, academic deterioration, anxiety, and loss of interest in previous passions may occur alongside more serious psychiatric symptoms such as auditory hallucinations, paranoia, or grandiosity. Any time there is a suggestion of psychotic symptoms in a previously healthy person in the late teens or early 20s, a prompt comprehensive psychiatric evaluation is critical. These years are when most chronic psychotic disorders, such as schizophrenia, are likely to emerge. These patients require a thorough evaluation to distinguish these disorders from other illnesses, especially when they occur with substance use. And these patients require specialized care.
If your patient appears to have any psychotic symptoms, it is critical that you help the family find an excellent psychiatrist, or even a clinic that specializes in thought disorders so that he or she may get the best possible care early.
There is another class of students who withdraw from college who will need more comprehensive remediation, but not connected to any psychiatric diagnosis. Some young people may not be developmentally ready for college. These are your patients who often were excellent performers in high school, perhaps academically and athletically, but whose performance was more connected to pleasing important adults than to genuine motivating passions or sense of purpose. These young adults may have been drawn into the intense, results-oriented forces that are powerful in many of our high schools. If they did not have enough time or space to explore a host of interests, and to then manage the routine failures, setbacks, and disappointments that are essential to healthy adolescent development, they are going to run out of fuel in college. Such students often are quite dependent on their parents, and struggle with the independence college offers.
If your patients report that they could not muster the same intense work ethic they previously had, without any evidence of a psychiatric illness interfering with motivation, they may need time to finish the developmental work of cultivating a deep and rich sense of their own identity. Some students can do this at college, provided they, their parents and their school offer them adequate time before they have to declare a major. Other students will need to get a job and explore interests with a few courses at a community college, cultivating independence while learning about their own strengths and weaknesses and their genuine interests. This way, when they return to school, they will be motivated by a genuine sense of purpose and self-knowledge.
“Failure to launch” is a critical symptom at a key transitional moment. Pediatric providers can be essential to their patients and families by clarifying the nature of the difficulty and coordinating a reasonable plan to get these young adults back on track to healthy adulthood.
Dr. Swick is physician in chief at Ohana, Center for Child and Adolescent Behavioral Health, Community Hospital of the Monterey (Calif.) Peninsula. Dr. Jellinek is professor emeritus of psychiatry and pediatrics, Harvard Medical School, Boston. Email them at pdnews@mdedge.com.
March often is the time of year when college freshmen truly begin to feel comfortable in their new settings. Many students report feeling excited to get back to campus after the long winter break, and once into their second semester, they feel more comfortable with the independence from family and high school supports. It also is a time for some college freshmen to return home after failing to manage this major transition.
Of the latter group, many will have had difficult months of depression, anxiety, or substance use, and most will be suffering from a deep sense of shame after failing to navigate this long-anticipated transition.
Some students will report a great social experience, but academic struggles. They will report some normal ups and downs emotionally, but most of their distress will have been focused on their academic performance. Many 18-year-olds have not had to organize their time and effort around homework without the attention and support of parents and teachers. College often has much bigger classes, with less personal attention. There is a lot of assigned reading, but no regular incremental homework, only a major midterm and final exam, or a substantial paper. For a student who gets anxious about performance, or one with organizational challenges, this can lead to procrastination and poor performance.
Find out details about how they did academically. Did they fail one class or many classes? Did they receive some incompletes in their first semester and then struggle to catch up with them while keeping up with their second semester work? Did they have tutoring or support? Were they unrealistic about their course load? Or did they have their first serious relationship and not spend enough time on homework? Did they spend too much time partying with their new friends and not enough time sleeping and getting their homework done?
It is important to dig deeper if patients report regular or binge drug and alcohol use that interfered with their academic performance, as they may need more substantial substance use disorder treatment. Most students, though, will not have a substance use disorder. Instead, their academic failure could represent something as simple as the need for more academic support and time management support. Many schools have such programs to help students learn how to better manage their time and effort as they take fuller responsibility than they had for it in high school.
For other students, you will learn that their emotional distress preceded their academic troubles. The stress of the transition to college may be enough to trigger an episode of depression or to exacerbate a mood or anxiety disorder that was subclinical or in remission before school started. These students usually will report that sadness, intense anxiety, or loss of interest came early in their semester; perhaps they were even doing well academically when these problems started.
Ask about how their sleep was. Often they had difficulty falling asleep or woke up often at night, unlike most college students, whose sleep is compromised because they stay up late with new friends or because they are hard at work, but could easily sleep at any time.
Find out about their eating habits. Did they lose their appetite? Lose weight? Did they become preoccupied with weight or body image issues and begin restricting their intake? Eating disorders can begin in college when vulnerable students are stressed and have more control over their diet. While weight gain is more common in freshman year, it often is connected to poor stress management skills, and is more often a marker of a student who was struggling academically and then managing stress by overeating.
In the case where the distress came first, it is critical that your patients have a thorough psychiatric evaluation and treatment. It may be possible for them to return to school quickly, but it is most important that they are engaged in effective treatment and in at last partial remission before adding to their stress by attempting to return to school. Often, ambitious students and their parents need to hear this message very clearly from a pediatrician. A rushed return to school may be a set-up for a more protracted and difficult course of illness. For these students, it may be better to have a fresh start in a new semester. Help them (and their parents) to understand that they should use their time off to focus on treatment and good self-care so they might benefit from the many opportunities of college.
For a small minority of college students who do not succeed at college, their social withdrawal, academic deterioration, anxiety, and loss of interest in previous passions may occur alongside more serious psychiatric symptoms such as auditory hallucinations, paranoia, or grandiosity. Any time there is a suggestion of psychotic symptoms in a previously healthy person in the late teens or early 20s, a prompt comprehensive psychiatric evaluation is critical. These years are when most chronic psychotic disorders, such as schizophrenia, are likely to emerge. These patients require a thorough evaluation to distinguish these disorders from other illnesses, especially when they occur with substance use. And these patients require specialized care.
If your patient appears to have any psychotic symptoms, it is critical that you help the family find an excellent psychiatrist, or even a clinic that specializes in thought disorders so that he or she may get the best possible care early.
There is another class of students who withdraw from college who will need more comprehensive remediation, but not connected to any psychiatric diagnosis. Some young people may not be developmentally ready for college. These are your patients who often were excellent performers in high school, perhaps academically and athletically, but whose performance was more connected to pleasing important adults than to genuine motivating passions or sense of purpose. These young adults may have been drawn into the intense, results-oriented forces that are powerful in many of our high schools. If they did not have enough time or space to explore a host of interests, and to then manage the routine failures, setbacks, and disappointments that are essential to healthy adolescent development, they are going to run out of fuel in college. Such students often are quite dependent on their parents, and struggle with the independence college offers.
If your patients report that they could not muster the same intense work ethic they previously had, without any evidence of a psychiatric illness interfering with motivation, they may need time to finish the developmental work of cultivating a deep and rich sense of their own identity. Some students can do this at college, provided they, their parents and their school offer them adequate time before they have to declare a major. Other students will need to get a job and explore interests with a few courses at a community college, cultivating independence while learning about their own strengths and weaknesses and their genuine interests. This way, when they return to school, they will be motivated by a genuine sense of purpose and self-knowledge.
“Failure to launch” is a critical symptom at a key transitional moment. Pediatric providers can be essential to their patients and families by clarifying the nature of the difficulty and coordinating a reasonable plan to get these young adults back on track to healthy adulthood.
Dr. Swick is physician in chief at Ohana, Center for Child and Adolescent Behavioral Health, Community Hospital of the Monterey (Calif.) Peninsula. Dr. Jellinek is professor emeritus of psychiatry and pediatrics, Harvard Medical School, Boston. Email them at pdnews@mdedge.com.
March often is the time of year when college freshmen truly begin to feel comfortable in their new settings. Many students report feeling excited to get back to campus after the long winter break, and once into their second semester, they feel more comfortable with the independence from family and high school supports. It also is a time for some college freshmen to return home after failing to manage this major transition.
Of the latter group, many will have had difficult months of depression, anxiety, or substance use, and most will be suffering from a deep sense of shame after failing to navigate this long-anticipated transition.
Some students will report a great social experience, but academic struggles. They will report some normal ups and downs emotionally, but most of their distress will have been focused on their academic performance. Many 18-year-olds have not had to organize their time and effort around homework without the attention and support of parents and teachers. College often has much bigger classes, with less personal attention. There is a lot of assigned reading, but no regular incremental homework, only a major midterm and final exam, or a substantial paper. For a student who gets anxious about performance, or one with organizational challenges, this can lead to procrastination and poor performance.
Find out details about how they did academically. Did they fail one class or many classes? Did they receive some incompletes in their first semester and then struggle to catch up with them while keeping up with their second semester work? Did they have tutoring or support? Were they unrealistic about their course load? Or did they have their first serious relationship and not spend enough time on homework? Did they spend too much time partying with their new friends and not enough time sleeping and getting their homework done?
It is important to dig deeper if patients report regular or binge drug and alcohol use that interfered with their academic performance, as they may need more substantial substance use disorder treatment. Most students, though, will not have a substance use disorder. Instead, their academic failure could represent something as simple as the need for more academic support and time management support. Many schools have such programs to help students learn how to better manage their time and effort as they take fuller responsibility than they had for it in high school.
For other students, you will learn that their emotional distress preceded their academic troubles. The stress of the transition to college may be enough to trigger an episode of depression or to exacerbate a mood or anxiety disorder that was subclinical or in remission before school started. These students usually will report that sadness, intense anxiety, or loss of interest came early in their semester; perhaps they were even doing well academically when these problems started.
Ask about how their sleep was. Often they had difficulty falling asleep or woke up often at night, unlike most college students, whose sleep is compromised because they stay up late with new friends or because they are hard at work, but could easily sleep at any time.
Find out about their eating habits. Did they lose their appetite? Lose weight? Did they become preoccupied with weight or body image issues and begin restricting their intake? Eating disorders can begin in college when vulnerable students are stressed and have more control over their diet. While weight gain is more common in freshman year, it often is connected to poor stress management skills, and is more often a marker of a student who was struggling academically and then managing stress by overeating.
In the case where the distress came first, it is critical that your patients have a thorough psychiatric evaluation and treatment. It may be possible for them to return to school quickly, but it is most important that they are engaged in effective treatment and in at last partial remission before adding to their stress by attempting to return to school. Often, ambitious students and their parents need to hear this message very clearly from a pediatrician. A rushed return to school may be a set-up for a more protracted and difficult course of illness. For these students, it may be better to have a fresh start in a new semester. Help them (and their parents) to understand that they should use their time off to focus on treatment and good self-care so they might benefit from the many opportunities of college.
For a small minority of college students who do not succeed at college, their social withdrawal, academic deterioration, anxiety, and loss of interest in previous passions may occur alongside more serious psychiatric symptoms such as auditory hallucinations, paranoia, or grandiosity. Any time there is a suggestion of psychotic symptoms in a previously healthy person in the late teens or early 20s, a prompt comprehensive psychiatric evaluation is critical. These years are when most chronic psychotic disorders, such as schizophrenia, are likely to emerge. These patients require a thorough evaluation to distinguish these disorders from other illnesses, especially when they occur with substance use. And these patients require specialized care.
If your patient appears to have any psychotic symptoms, it is critical that you help the family find an excellent psychiatrist, or even a clinic that specializes in thought disorders so that he or she may get the best possible care early.
There is another class of students who withdraw from college who will need more comprehensive remediation, but not connected to any psychiatric diagnosis. Some young people may not be developmentally ready for college. These are your patients who often were excellent performers in high school, perhaps academically and athletically, but whose performance was more connected to pleasing important adults than to genuine motivating passions or sense of purpose. These young adults may have been drawn into the intense, results-oriented forces that are powerful in many of our high schools. If they did not have enough time or space to explore a host of interests, and to then manage the routine failures, setbacks, and disappointments that are essential to healthy adolescent development, they are going to run out of fuel in college. Such students often are quite dependent on their parents, and struggle with the independence college offers.
If your patients report that they could not muster the same intense work ethic they previously had, without any evidence of a psychiatric illness interfering with motivation, they may need time to finish the developmental work of cultivating a deep and rich sense of their own identity. Some students can do this at college, provided they, their parents and their school offer them adequate time before they have to declare a major. Other students will need to get a job and explore interests with a few courses at a community college, cultivating independence while learning about their own strengths and weaknesses and their genuine interests. This way, when they return to school, they will be motivated by a genuine sense of purpose and self-knowledge.
“Failure to launch” is a critical symptom at a key transitional moment. Pediatric providers can be essential to their patients and families by clarifying the nature of the difficulty and coordinating a reasonable plan to get these young adults back on track to healthy adulthood.
Dr. Swick is physician in chief at Ohana, Center for Child and Adolescent Behavioral Health, Community Hospital of the Monterey (Calif.) Peninsula. Dr. Jellinek is professor emeritus of psychiatry and pediatrics, Harvard Medical School, Boston. Email them at pdnews@mdedge.com.
How to manage school failure
The start of the school year brings excitement and some expected anxiety, around seeing friends and undertaking new challenges. While setbacks, small failures, and disappointments are an essential part of a child’s mastery of new challenges, academic and otherwise, occasionally a child will experience school failure in many areas. When this happens, the school usually will engage parents to help understand and address what might be interfering with the child’s performance at school. Parents may turn to their trusted pediatricians for guidance in sorting out school failure, as the list of possible causes is very long. By asking the right questions and knowing your patient, you can efficiently investigate this problem so that your patient may quickly get back on track, both academically and in overall development.
Are their academic problems a striking change from prior years? If your patients previously had managed coursework with ease, then there is a new problem interfering with their performance, unless they are young enough that earlier years were not as challenging. Possibly a previous school was not as demanding or new academic expectations such as writing an essay or a dramatic increase in reading expectations have exposed a learning disability or attentional issue that is interfering with performance. This can be sorted out by asking more specific questions about their function. Do they struggle more with reading, essay writing, or math? Do they struggle with sustained attention on assignments or handing in completed work? Your patients can help answer these questions, as can as parents and teachers. Neuropsychological testing can elucidate specific learning disabilities or indicate marked problems with attention, working memory, or processing speed that may be improved with cognitive coaching, in-class strategies, and even medications. With older patients, a new problem is less likely to be the first presentation of an underlying learning or attentional issue and will need further investigation.
Do your patients still enjoy school or are they resisting attending? Students who are avoiding school may be struggling with anxiety. This may be a consequence of their academic struggles, as they try to avoid the shame, embarrassment, or discomfort of their failure to understand material, keep up, or perform. Alternately, the anxiety may have come first, leading to an inability to manage the challenges of school and then failure academically. Similarly, a mood disorder such as depression can create problems with attention, energy, interest, and motivation that make it difficult to attend and participate in school.
Ask about any family history of school problems and psychiatric disorders as these issues often run in families. Ask if there is anxiety around academic or social performance or more generalized anxiety. Are they experiencing trouble with sleep, energy, appetite? Have they withdrawn from other interests? Are they more tearful or irritable in all settings? When these symptoms are universal (i.e., occurring across settings and affecting school), there is likely an underlying psychiatric disorder driving them, and they require a full psychiatric assessment. It is worth noting that often children or adolescents with mood or anxiety disorders will experience somatic symptoms such as stomach aches or headaches alongside the loss of energy and motivation. They may come to the pediatrician first, and it is important to investigate the likely psychiatric illnesses (anxiety in prepubertal children and anxiety or depression in adolescents) as well as the more esoteric medical problems that could be causing such universal impairment in a child or teenager. Stigma still exists around psychiatric illness and it is powerful when a pediatrician can tell a family that these illnesses are common in young people (affecting nearly 20% of children by the age of 18) and very treatable.
Drug and alcohol abuse may be associated with another psychiatric illness or can be independent problems that interfere with the healthy development and school performance of young people, including middle school students. Find out if your patients are drinking alcohol, using marijuana, vaping, utilizing prescription medications that are not their own, or using other illegal drugs. Substance use that has led to problems at school is by definition a problem (in addition to being illegal) and will not improve without treatment. These young people need a full psychiatric evaluation, and they and their parents require specialized treatment and support to address the substance abuse problem.
Of course, school failure may represent other sources of stress. It is critical to find out from your patients if they feel safe at school. Are they being bullied or threatened? Do they have a safe way to get to and from school? Has something else occurred at the school that has left them feeling vigilant and unable to concentrate on classwork? While bullying or living in a neighborhood plagued by violence may not be easy problems to fix, it is critical to find out about them so the adults – parents, teachers, and others – can provide the students with support while directly addressing the safety issue. Do not fail to find out if the fear is at home. Children who are managing physical or sexual abuse may be too stressed to complete homework or even attend school. A caring, curious pediatrician will be a lifeline to a safer future for these children.
Similarly, it is important to find out if your patient is managing less dramatic stresses at home. Perhaps a parent has been seriously ill, working two jobs, or managing a problem with drugs or alcohol, and your patient is caring for that person, or for siblings, instead of keeping up with schoolwork. Perhaps there has been a stressful loss or transition, such as the death of a grandparent or pet, the loss of a job, or a big move, or family discord/violence that has made it difficult for your patient to focus on homework or interfered with parental supervision or homework help. Perhaps your patient has gotten a job to help the family financially and has no time for homework. Bringing such a challenge out into the open and rallying support for your patient and the family in these circumstances is often enough to foster adaptation to these stresses and a return to healthy function in school.
Finally, it is possible that school failure is a function of milder imbalances in a young person’s life. Some children may respond to the expanded independence of adolescence by making poor choices. When do they go to bed at night? Are they staying up late playing video games or surfing the web? Not all insomnia represents illness. Find out how much independence your patients have and how they are managing their time and responsibilities. Help them to think about how to protect time for both responsibilities and relaxation. You also may help the parents of these young people think about how to set expectations and basic rules while stepping back appropriately to allow for expanding independence in ways that will help their children to flourish.
Once defined, Setting reasonable expectations, curriculum adjustments, any needed psychiatric treatment, building on a child’s strengths, and paying attention to self-esteem are the hallmarks of effective interventions.
Dr. Swick is an attending psychiatrist in the division of child psychiatry at Massachusetts General Hospital, Boston, and director of the Parenting at a Challenging Time (PACT) Program at the Vernon Cancer Center at Newton Wellesley Hospital, also in Boston. Dr. Jellinek is professor emeritus of psychiatry and pediatrics, Harvard Medical School, Boston. Email them at pdnews@mdedge.com.
The start of the school year brings excitement and some expected anxiety, around seeing friends and undertaking new challenges. While setbacks, small failures, and disappointments are an essential part of a child’s mastery of new challenges, academic and otherwise, occasionally a child will experience school failure in many areas. When this happens, the school usually will engage parents to help understand and address what might be interfering with the child’s performance at school. Parents may turn to their trusted pediatricians for guidance in sorting out school failure, as the list of possible causes is very long. By asking the right questions and knowing your patient, you can efficiently investigate this problem so that your patient may quickly get back on track, both academically and in overall development.
Are their academic problems a striking change from prior years? If your patients previously had managed coursework with ease, then there is a new problem interfering with their performance, unless they are young enough that earlier years were not as challenging. Possibly a previous school was not as demanding or new academic expectations such as writing an essay or a dramatic increase in reading expectations have exposed a learning disability or attentional issue that is interfering with performance. This can be sorted out by asking more specific questions about their function. Do they struggle more with reading, essay writing, or math? Do they struggle with sustained attention on assignments or handing in completed work? Your patients can help answer these questions, as can as parents and teachers. Neuropsychological testing can elucidate specific learning disabilities or indicate marked problems with attention, working memory, or processing speed that may be improved with cognitive coaching, in-class strategies, and even medications. With older patients, a new problem is less likely to be the first presentation of an underlying learning or attentional issue and will need further investigation.
Do your patients still enjoy school or are they resisting attending? Students who are avoiding school may be struggling with anxiety. This may be a consequence of their academic struggles, as they try to avoid the shame, embarrassment, or discomfort of their failure to understand material, keep up, or perform. Alternately, the anxiety may have come first, leading to an inability to manage the challenges of school and then failure academically. Similarly, a mood disorder such as depression can create problems with attention, energy, interest, and motivation that make it difficult to attend and participate in school.
Ask about any family history of school problems and psychiatric disorders as these issues often run in families. Ask if there is anxiety around academic or social performance or more generalized anxiety. Are they experiencing trouble with sleep, energy, appetite? Have they withdrawn from other interests? Are they more tearful or irritable in all settings? When these symptoms are universal (i.e., occurring across settings and affecting school), there is likely an underlying psychiatric disorder driving them, and they require a full psychiatric assessment. It is worth noting that often children or adolescents with mood or anxiety disorders will experience somatic symptoms such as stomach aches or headaches alongside the loss of energy and motivation. They may come to the pediatrician first, and it is important to investigate the likely psychiatric illnesses (anxiety in prepubertal children and anxiety or depression in adolescents) as well as the more esoteric medical problems that could be causing such universal impairment in a child or teenager. Stigma still exists around psychiatric illness and it is powerful when a pediatrician can tell a family that these illnesses are common in young people (affecting nearly 20% of children by the age of 18) and very treatable.
Drug and alcohol abuse may be associated with another psychiatric illness or can be independent problems that interfere with the healthy development and school performance of young people, including middle school students. Find out if your patients are drinking alcohol, using marijuana, vaping, utilizing prescription medications that are not their own, or using other illegal drugs. Substance use that has led to problems at school is by definition a problem (in addition to being illegal) and will not improve without treatment. These young people need a full psychiatric evaluation, and they and their parents require specialized treatment and support to address the substance abuse problem.
Of course, school failure may represent other sources of stress. It is critical to find out from your patients if they feel safe at school. Are they being bullied or threatened? Do they have a safe way to get to and from school? Has something else occurred at the school that has left them feeling vigilant and unable to concentrate on classwork? While bullying or living in a neighborhood plagued by violence may not be easy problems to fix, it is critical to find out about them so the adults – parents, teachers, and others – can provide the students with support while directly addressing the safety issue. Do not fail to find out if the fear is at home. Children who are managing physical or sexual abuse may be too stressed to complete homework or even attend school. A caring, curious pediatrician will be a lifeline to a safer future for these children.
Similarly, it is important to find out if your patient is managing less dramatic stresses at home. Perhaps a parent has been seriously ill, working two jobs, or managing a problem with drugs or alcohol, and your patient is caring for that person, or for siblings, instead of keeping up with schoolwork. Perhaps there has been a stressful loss or transition, such as the death of a grandparent or pet, the loss of a job, or a big move, or family discord/violence that has made it difficult for your patient to focus on homework or interfered with parental supervision or homework help. Perhaps your patient has gotten a job to help the family financially and has no time for homework. Bringing such a challenge out into the open and rallying support for your patient and the family in these circumstances is often enough to foster adaptation to these stresses and a return to healthy function in school.
Finally, it is possible that school failure is a function of milder imbalances in a young person’s life. Some children may respond to the expanded independence of adolescence by making poor choices. When do they go to bed at night? Are they staying up late playing video games or surfing the web? Not all insomnia represents illness. Find out how much independence your patients have and how they are managing their time and responsibilities. Help them to think about how to protect time for both responsibilities and relaxation. You also may help the parents of these young people think about how to set expectations and basic rules while stepping back appropriately to allow for expanding independence in ways that will help their children to flourish.
Once defined, Setting reasonable expectations, curriculum adjustments, any needed psychiatric treatment, building on a child’s strengths, and paying attention to self-esteem are the hallmarks of effective interventions.
Dr. Swick is an attending psychiatrist in the division of child psychiatry at Massachusetts General Hospital, Boston, and director of the Parenting at a Challenging Time (PACT) Program at the Vernon Cancer Center at Newton Wellesley Hospital, also in Boston. Dr. Jellinek is professor emeritus of psychiatry and pediatrics, Harvard Medical School, Boston. Email them at pdnews@mdedge.com.
The start of the school year brings excitement and some expected anxiety, around seeing friends and undertaking new challenges. While setbacks, small failures, and disappointments are an essential part of a child’s mastery of new challenges, academic and otherwise, occasionally a child will experience school failure in many areas. When this happens, the school usually will engage parents to help understand and address what might be interfering with the child’s performance at school. Parents may turn to their trusted pediatricians for guidance in sorting out school failure, as the list of possible causes is very long. By asking the right questions and knowing your patient, you can efficiently investigate this problem so that your patient may quickly get back on track, both academically and in overall development.
Are their academic problems a striking change from prior years? If your patients previously had managed coursework with ease, then there is a new problem interfering with their performance, unless they are young enough that earlier years were not as challenging. Possibly a previous school was not as demanding or new academic expectations such as writing an essay or a dramatic increase in reading expectations have exposed a learning disability or attentional issue that is interfering with performance. This can be sorted out by asking more specific questions about their function. Do they struggle more with reading, essay writing, or math? Do they struggle with sustained attention on assignments or handing in completed work? Your patients can help answer these questions, as can as parents and teachers. Neuropsychological testing can elucidate specific learning disabilities or indicate marked problems with attention, working memory, or processing speed that may be improved with cognitive coaching, in-class strategies, and even medications. With older patients, a new problem is less likely to be the first presentation of an underlying learning or attentional issue and will need further investigation.
Do your patients still enjoy school or are they resisting attending? Students who are avoiding school may be struggling with anxiety. This may be a consequence of their academic struggles, as they try to avoid the shame, embarrassment, or discomfort of their failure to understand material, keep up, or perform. Alternately, the anxiety may have come first, leading to an inability to manage the challenges of school and then failure academically. Similarly, a mood disorder such as depression can create problems with attention, energy, interest, and motivation that make it difficult to attend and participate in school.
Ask about any family history of school problems and psychiatric disorders as these issues often run in families. Ask if there is anxiety around academic or social performance or more generalized anxiety. Are they experiencing trouble with sleep, energy, appetite? Have they withdrawn from other interests? Are they more tearful or irritable in all settings? When these symptoms are universal (i.e., occurring across settings and affecting school), there is likely an underlying psychiatric disorder driving them, and they require a full psychiatric assessment. It is worth noting that often children or adolescents with mood or anxiety disorders will experience somatic symptoms such as stomach aches or headaches alongside the loss of energy and motivation. They may come to the pediatrician first, and it is important to investigate the likely psychiatric illnesses (anxiety in prepubertal children and anxiety or depression in adolescents) as well as the more esoteric medical problems that could be causing such universal impairment in a child or teenager. Stigma still exists around psychiatric illness and it is powerful when a pediatrician can tell a family that these illnesses are common in young people (affecting nearly 20% of children by the age of 18) and very treatable.
Drug and alcohol abuse may be associated with another psychiatric illness or can be independent problems that interfere with the healthy development and school performance of young people, including middle school students. Find out if your patients are drinking alcohol, using marijuana, vaping, utilizing prescription medications that are not their own, or using other illegal drugs. Substance use that has led to problems at school is by definition a problem (in addition to being illegal) and will not improve without treatment. These young people need a full psychiatric evaluation, and they and their parents require specialized treatment and support to address the substance abuse problem.
Of course, school failure may represent other sources of stress. It is critical to find out from your patients if they feel safe at school. Are they being bullied or threatened? Do they have a safe way to get to and from school? Has something else occurred at the school that has left them feeling vigilant and unable to concentrate on classwork? While bullying or living in a neighborhood plagued by violence may not be easy problems to fix, it is critical to find out about them so the adults – parents, teachers, and others – can provide the students with support while directly addressing the safety issue. Do not fail to find out if the fear is at home. Children who are managing physical or sexual abuse may be too stressed to complete homework or even attend school. A caring, curious pediatrician will be a lifeline to a safer future for these children.
Similarly, it is important to find out if your patient is managing less dramatic stresses at home. Perhaps a parent has been seriously ill, working two jobs, or managing a problem with drugs or alcohol, and your patient is caring for that person, or for siblings, instead of keeping up with schoolwork. Perhaps there has been a stressful loss or transition, such as the death of a grandparent or pet, the loss of a job, or a big move, or family discord/violence that has made it difficult for your patient to focus on homework or interfered with parental supervision or homework help. Perhaps your patient has gotten a job to help the family financially and has no time for homework. Bringing such a challenge out into the open and rallying support for your patient and the family in these circumstances is often enough to foster adaptation to these stresses and a return to healthy function in school.
Finally, it is possible that school failure is a function of milder imbalances in a young person’s life. Some children may respond to the expanded independence of adolescence by making poor choices. When do they go to bed at night? Are they staying up late playing video games or surfing the web? Not all insomnia represents illness. Find out how much independence your patients have and how they are managing their time and responsibilities. Help them to think about how to protect time for both responsibilities and relaxation. You also may help the parents of these young people think about how to set expectations and basic rules while stepping back appropriately to allow for expanding independence in ways that will help their children to flourish.
Once defined, Setting reasonable expectations, curriculum adjustments, any needed psychiatric treatment, building on a child’s strengths, and paying attention to self-esteem are the hallmarks of effective interventions.
Dr. Swick is an attending psychiatrist in the division of child psychiatry at Massachusetts General Hospital, Boston, and director of the Parenting at a Challenging Time (PACT) Program at the Vernon Cancer Center at Newton Wellesley Hospital, also in Boston. Dr. Jellinek is professor emeritus of psychiatry and pediatrics, Harvard Medical School, Boston. Email them at pdnews@mdedge.com.
How to bring behavioral care into your office
There is consensus within both the medical and public health communities that an integrated model of health care, in which behavioral health is integrated into primary care settings, is the optimal way to improve the health of a population (not just treat disease) while managing costs and improving the patient’s experience of care. Such a model is especially compelling for pediatric care.
There are 74 million children under 18 years in the United States and the prevalence of psychiatric disorders in youth is 20%, or 15 million; after vaccinations and following development, managing psychiatric symptoms is the most common issue in pediatric primary care.
While some psychiatric illnesses can be well managed by primary care clinicians alone, some illnesses require specialized therapy or more complex pharmacologic treatment. Untreated or inadequately treated childhood mental illness can lead to a longer and worse course of illness, academic difficulties, emergence of associated illnesses (such as substance use disorders), and legal problems. For those children with chronic medical conditions, emotional disorders cause distress, and affect adherence and family functioning. We will discuss some practical strategies to begin to bring behavioral health care into the pediatric primary care setting.
Start by implementing behavioral health screening into annual and sick visits. Broad instruments, such as the Pediatric Symptom Checklist (PSC, 35 items) or the Child Behavior Check List (CBCL, 113 items) can be filled out by caregivers in the waiting room or online before a visit, and can suggest specific disorders or simply the need for a full psychiatric assessment. Electronic medical records may have publicly available questionnaires such as PSC built into their software, facilitating use of a tablet or home computer, and may ease scoring and downloading of results. Depending on the structure of your practice, you could have one clinician in charge of managing screening. You may become comfortable diagnosing certain disorders, such as ADHD, a major depressive episode, or an anxiety disorder, and you may begin medication treatment when appropriate. You can use instruments developed for specific disease entities (such as ADHD, obsessive compulsive disorder [OCD], anxiety, or depression) to monitor your patient’s treatment response, and they may be done virtually to minimize unnecessary visits.
Treatment algorithms for most psychiatric illnesses are available through the American Academy of Pediatrics and the American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry, and can guide you through the early stages of treatment. Psychotherapy is the first-line treatment for mild to moderate anxiety and mood disorders, and it is critical to the treatment of more severe disorders. Difficulty in finding a therapist who is skilled in a specific treatment, is a good fit, and accepts insurance can be a significant barrier to care. Establishing a coordinated relationship with a team of therapists can facilitate referrals. Some states have programs in which primary care physicians can have telephone consultations with mental health clinicians or to access referral services for therapy, such as the Massachusetts Child Psychiatry Access Project.
If you have a busy enough practice, consider bringing a social worker or psychologist to work with you. Such a clinician could perform diagnostic assessments, ongoing therapy, parent guidance, family work, or care coordination. Consider how to make it cost-effective for this clinician and your group, whether by inviting that person to sublet one of your offices, or having that person directly employed by you and benefiting from your office staff and patient flow. Many states now reimburse for screening and these funds could contribute to the expense of a social worker. This approach would bring you from coordination to true colocation, which greatly improves the likelihood of compliance with therapy, enhances coordination of a patient’s care, creates opportunities for ongoing education between disciplines, and diminishes stigma of acknowledging a mental illness. Anxiety disorders are the most common illnesses of youth, with mood disorders emerging in adolescence, and substance use disorders in later adolescence. Consider this in seeking a clinician with a specific interest or skill set (such as cognitive behavioral therapy for anxiety or mood problems, dialectical behavior therapy for chronic suicidality, or motivational interviewing for substance abuse).
Beyond diagnosing and treating psychiatric illness in your patients, a primary care pediatric setting with integrated behavioral health would improve the health of our young patients by investing in prevention and parental support. Universal prevention efforts are a hallmark of good pediatric care, from vaccines to educating parents and children about injury prevention (bike helmets, smoke detectors, and car seats) and risky behaviors (smoking). Educate your patients and their parents about best practices to promote good mental health, from good sleep hygiene to regular exercise and healthy stress management techniques. You could use posters and pamphlets, videos and smartphone apps, or screening instruments and discussion.
If you invest in a colocated mental health clinician, you can expand your prevention efforts beyond the universal. Screen for a family history of anxiety, mood, and substance use disorders, and screen for adverse childhood experiences scores. Chronic stress and a family history of specific psychiatric illnesses significantly increase the risk of specific illnesses in your patients. There are evidence-based interventions that can be used to prevent the emergence of many disorders in young people at specific risk. For example, parents who have struggled with anxiety can learn specific strategies for managing their children’s anxiety, significantly lowering the risk of anxiety disorders in their children. These skills can be taught individually or in groups, depending on the prevalence in your practice. Those insurers who reimburse for therapy have a reimbursement schedule for work with parents as well.
There may be funds available to support your investment in integrated care. Under the Affordable Care Act, Medicaid enhanced funding for Health Homes for enrolled children. There have been federal grants for primary care offices to engage in different levels of integration and measure outcomes (Project LAUNCH – Linking Actions for Unmet Needs in Children’s Health). There may be funding at the state level or from private foundations dedicated to public health research and initiatives. Even if you do not invest in procuring outside funding, you should consider how to measure patient outcomes once you are making any efforts at integrating behavioral health care into your practice. Outcome measures include questionnaire scores, treatment adherence, number of school absences, number of office or ED visits, or global measurements, such as the Child Global Assessment Scale (CGAS). Such data can inform you about how to adjust your approach, and could contribute to the larger effort to understand what strategies are most effective and feasible. Addressing the behavioral health needs of your patients could meaningfully contribute to the efforts to make the vision of integrated care – that which truly promotes health in our young people – a reality.
Dr. Swick is an attending psychiatrist in the division of child psychiatry at Massachusetts General Hospital, Boston, and director of the Parenting at a Challenging Time (PACT) Program at the Vernon Cancer Center at Newton Wellesley Hospital, also in Boston. Dr. Jellinek is professor emeritus of psychiatry and pediatrics at Harvard Medical School, Boston. Email them at pdnews@mdedge.com.
There is consensus within both the medical and public health communities that an integrated model of health care, in which behavioral health is integrated into primary care settings, is the optimal way to improve the health of a population (not just treat disease) while managing costs and improving the patient’s experience of care. Such a model is especially compelling for pediatric care.
There are 74 million children under 18 years in the United States and the prevalence of psychiatric disorders in youth is 20%, or 15 million; after vaccinations and following development, managing psychiatric symptoms is the most common issue in pediatric primary care.
While some psychiatric illnesses can be well managed by primary care clinicians alone, some illnesses require specialized therapy or more complex pharmacologic treatment. Untreated or inadequately treated childhood mental illness can lead to a longer and worse course of illness, academic difficulties, emergence of associated illnesses (such as substance use disorders), and legal problems. For those children with chronic medical conditions, emotional disorders cause distress, and affect adherence and family functioning. We will discuss some practical strategies to begin to bring behavioral health care into the pediatric primary care setting.
Start by implementing behavioral health screening into annual and sick visits. Broad instruments, such as the Pediatric Symptom Checklist (PSC, 35 items) or the Child Behavior Check List (CBCL, 113 items) can be filled out by caregivers in the waiting room or online before a visit, and can suggest specific disorders or simply the need for a full psychiatric assessment. Electronic medical records may have publicly available questionnaires such as PSC built into their software, facilitating use of a tablet or home computer, and may ease scoring and downloading of results. Depending on the structure of your practice, you could have one clinician in charge of managing screening. You may become comfortable diagnosing certain disorders, such as ADHD, a major depressive episode, or an anxiety disorder, and you may begin medication treatment when appropriate. You can use instruments developed for specific disease entities (such as ADHD, obsessive compulsive disorder [OCD], anxiety, or depression) to monitor your patient’s treatment response, and they may be done virtually to minimize unnecessary visits.
Treatment algorithms for most psychiatric illnesses are available through the American Academy of Pediatrics and the American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry, and can guide you through the early stages of treatment. Psychotherapy is the first-line treatment for mild to moderate anxiety and mood disorders, and it is critical to the treatment of more severe disorders. Difficulty in finding a therapist who is skilled in a specific treatment, is a good fit, and accepts insurance can be a significant barrier to care. Establishing a coordinated relationship with a team of therapists can facilitate referrals. Some states have programs in which primary care physicians can have telephone consultations with mental health clinicians or to access referral services for therapy, such as the Massachusetts Child Psychiatry Access Project.
If you have a busy enough practice, consider bringing a social worker or psychologist to work with you. Such a clinician could perform diagnostic assessments, ongoing therapy, parent guidance, family work, or care coordination. Consider how to make it cost-effective for this clinician and your group, whether by inviting that person to sublet one of your offices, or having that person directly employed by you and benefiting from your office staff and patient flow. Many states now reimburse for screening and these funds could contribute to the expense of a social worker. This approach would bring you from coordination to true colocation, which greatly improves the likelihood of compliance with therapy, enhances coordination of a patient’s care, creates opportunities for ongoing education between disciplines, and diminishes stigma of acknowledging a mental illness. Anxiety disorders are the most common illnesses of youth, with mood disorders emerging in adolescence, and substance use disorders in later adolescence. Consider this in seeking a clinician with a specific interest or skill set (such as cognitive behavioral therapy for anxiety or mood problems, dialectical behavior therapy for chronic suicidality, or motivational interviewing for substance abuse).
Beyond diagnosing and treating psychiatric illness in your patients, a primary care pediatric setting with integrated behavioral health would improve the health of our young patients by investing in prevention and parental support. Universal prevention efforts are a hallmark of good pediatric care, from vaccines to educating parents and children about injury prevention (bike helmets, smoke detectors, and car seats) and risky behaviors (smoking). Educate your patients and their parents about best practices to promote good mental health, from good sleep hygiene to regular exercise and healthy stress management techniques. You could use posters and pamphlets, videos and smartphone apps, or screening instruments and discussion.
If you invest in a colocated mental health clinician, you can expand your prevention efforts beyond the universal. Screen for a family history of anxiety, mood, and substance use disorders, and screen for adverse childhood experiences scores. Chronic stress and a family history of specific psychiatric illnesses significantly increase the risk of specific illnesses in your patients. There are evidence-based interventions that can be used to prevent the emergence of many disorders in young people at specific risk. For example, parents who have struggled with anxiety can learn specific strategies for managing their children’s anxiety, significantly lowering the risk of anxiety disorders in their children. These skills can be taught individually or in groups, depending on the prevalence in your practice. Those insurers who reimburse for therapy have a reimbursement schedule for work with parents as well.
There may be funds available to support your investment in integrated care. Under the Affordable Care Act, Medicaid enhanced funding for Health Homes for enrolled children. There have been federal grants for primary care offices to engage in different levels of integration and measure outcomes (Project LAUNCH – Linking Actions for Unmet Needs in Children’s Health). There may be funding at the state level or from private foundations dedicated to public health research and initiatives. Even if you do not invest in procuring outside funding, you should consider how to measure patient outcomes once you are making any efforts at integrating behavioral health care into your practice. Outcome measures include questionnaire scores, treatment adherence, number of school absences, number of office or ED visits, or global measurements, such as the Child Global Assessment Scale (CGAS). Such data can inform you about how to adjust your approach, and could contribute to the larger effort to understand what strategies are most effective and feasible. Addressing the behavioral health needs of your patients could meaningfully contribute to the efforts to make the vision of integrated care – that which truly promotes health in our young people – a reality.
Dr. Swick is an attending psychiatrist in the division of child psychiatry at Massachusetts General Hospital, Boston, and director of the Parenting at a Challenging Time (PACT) Program at the Vernon Cancer Center at Newton Wellesley Hospital, also in Boston. Dr. Jellinek is professor emeritus of psychiatry and pediatrics at Harvard Medical School, Boston. Email them at pdnews@mdedge.com.
There is consensus within both the medical and public health communities that an integrated model of health care, in which behavioral health is integrated into primary care settings, is the optimal way to improve the health of a population (not just treat disease) while managing costs and improving the patient’s experience of care. Such a model is especially compelling for pediatric care.
There are 74 million children under 18 years in the United States and the prevalence of psychiatric disorders in youth is 20%, or 15 million; after vaccinations and following development, managing psychiatric symptoms is the most common issue in pediatric primary care.
While some psychiatric illnesses can be well managed by primary care clinicians alone, some illnesses require specialized therapy or more complex pharmacologic treatment. Untreated or inadequately treated childhood mental illness can lead to a longer and worse course of illness, academic difficulties, emergence of associated illnesses (such as substance use disorders), and legal problems. For those children with chronic medical conditions, emotional disorders cause distress, and affect adherence and family functioning. We will discuss some practical strategies to begin to bring behavioral health care into the pediatric primary care setting.
Start by implementing behavioral health screening into annual and sick visits. Broad instruments, such as the Pediatric Symptom Checklist (PSC, 35 items) or the Child Behavior Check List (CBCL, 113 items) can be filled out by caregivers in the waiting room or online before a visit, and can suggest specific disorders or simply the need for a full psychiatric assessment. Electronic medical records may have publicly available questionnaires such as PSC built into their software, facilitating use of a tablet or home computer, and may ease scoring and downloading of results. Depending on the structure of your practice, you could have one clinician in charge of managing screening. You may become comfortable diagnosing certain disorders, such as ADHD, a major depressive episode, or an anxiety disorder, and you may begin medication treatment when appropriate. You can use instruments developed for specific disease entities (such as ADHD, obsessive compulsive disorder [OCD], anxiety, or depression) to monitor your patient’s treatment response, and they may be done virtually to minimize unnecessary visits.
Treatment algorithms for most psychiatric illnesses are available through the American Academy of Pediatrics and the American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry, and can guide you through the early stages of treatment. Psychotherapy is the first-line treatment for mild to moderate anxiety and mood disorders, and it is critical to the treatment of more severe disorders. Difficulty in finding a therapist who is skilled in a specific treatment, is a good fit, and accepts insurance can be a significant barrier to care. Establishing a coordinated relationship with a team of therapists can facilitate referrals. Some states have programs in which primary care physicians can have telephone consultations with mental health clinicians or to access referral services for therapy, such as the Massachusetts Child Psychiatry Access Project.
If you have a busy enough practice, consider bringing a social worker or psychologist to work with you. Such a clinician could perform diagnostic assessments, ongoing therapy, parent guidance, family work, or care coordination. Consider how to make it cost-effective for this clinician and your group, whether by inviting that person to sublet one of your offices, or having that person directly employed by you and benefiting from your office staff and patient flow. Many states now reimburse for screening and these funds could contribute to the expense of a social worker. This approach would bring you from coordination to true colocation, which greatly improves the likelihood of compliance with therapy, enhances coordination of a patient’s care, creates opportunities for ongoing education between disciplines, and diminishes stigma of acknowledging a mental illness. Anxiety disorders are the most common illnesses of youth, with mood disorders emerging in adolescence, and substance use disorders in later adolescence. Consider this in seeking a clinician with a specific interest or skill set (such as cognitive behavioral therapy for anxiety or mood problems, dialectical behavior therapy for chronic suicidality, or motivational interviewing for substance abuse).
Beyond diagnosing and treating psychiatric illness in your patients, a primary care pediatric setting with integrated behavioral health would improve the health of our young patients by investing in prevention and parental support. Universal prevention efforts are a hallmark of good pediatric care, from vaccines to educating parents and children about injury prevention (bike helmets, smoke detectors, and car seats) and risky behaviors (smoking). Educate your patients and their parents about best practices to promote good mental health, from good sleep hygiene to regular exercise and healthy stress management techniques. You could use posters and pamphlets, videos and smartphone apps, or screening instruments and discussion.
If you invest in a colocated mental health clinician, you can expand your prevention efforts beyond the universal. Screen for a family history of anxiety, mood, and substance use disorders, and screen for adverse childhood experiences scores. Chronic stress and a family history of specific psychiatric illnesses significantly increase the risk of specific illnesses in your patients. There are evidence-based interventions that can be used to prevent the emergence of many disorders in young people at specific risk. For example, parents who have struggled with anxiety can learn specific strategies for managing their children’s anxiety, significantly lowering the risk of anxiety disorders in their children. These skills can be taught individually or in groups, depending on the prevalence in your practice. Those insurers who reimburse for therapy have a reimbursement schedule for work with parents as well.
There may be funds available to support your investment in integrated care. Under the Affordable Care Act, Medicaid enhanced funding for Health Homes for enrolled children. There have been federal grants for primary care offices to engage in different levels of integration and measure outcomes (Project LAUNCH – Linking Actions for Unmet Needs in Children’s Health). There may be funding at the state level or from private foundations dedicated to public health research and initiatives. Even if you do not invest in procuring outside funding, you should consider how to measure patient outcomes once you are making any efforts at integrating behavioral health care into your practice. Outcome measures include questionnaire scores, treatment adherence, number of school absences, number of office or ED visits, or global measurements, such as the Child Global Assessment Scale (CGAS). Such data can inform you about how to adjust your approach, and could contribute to the larger effort to understand what strategies are most effective and feasible. Addressing the behavioral health needs of your patients could meaningfully contribute to the efforts to make the vision of integrated care – that which truly promotes health in our young people – a reality.
Dr. Swick is an attending psychiatrist in the division of child psychiatry at Massachusetts General Hospital, Boston, and director of the Parenting at a Challenging Time (PACT) Program at the Vernon Cancer Center at Newton Wellesley Hospital, also in Boston. Dr. Jellinek is professor emeritus of psychiatry and pediatrics at Harvard Medical School, Boston. Email them at pdnews@mdedge.com.
Detached parents: How to help
While most of the parents you will see in your office will be thoughtful, engaged, and even anxious, occasionally you will encounter parents who seem detached from their children. Spending just a few extra minutes to understand this detachment could mean an enormous difference in the psychological health and developmental well-being of your patient.
It is striking when you see it: Flat affect, little eye contact, no questions or comments. If the parents seem unconnected to their children, it is worth being curious about it. Whether they are constantly on their phones or just disengaged, you should start by directing a question straight to them. Perhaps a question about the child’s sleep, appetite, or school performance is a good place to start. You would like to assess their knowledge of the child’s development, performance at school, friendships, and interests, to ensure that they are up to date and paying attention.
Once alone, you might start by offering your impression of how the child is doing, then observe that you noticed that they (the parents) seem quiet or distant. The following questions should help you better understand the nature of their detachment.
Depression
Ask about how they are sleeping. If the child is very young or the parents have a difficult work schedule, they might simply be sleep deprived, which you might help them address. Difficulty sleeping also can be a symptom of depression. Have they noticed any changes in their appetite or energy? Is it harder to concentrate? Have they felt more tearful, sad, or irritable? Have they noticed that they don’t get as much pleasure from things that usually bring them joy? Do they worry about being a burden to others? Major depressive disorder is relatively common, affecting as many as one in five women in the postpartum period and one in ten women generally.
Men experience depression at about half that rate, according the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. It is a condition that can cause feelings of guilt and shame, so many suffer silently, missing the chance for treatment and raising the risk for suicide. Infants of depressed mothers often appear listless and may be fussier about sleeping and eating, which can exacerbate poor attachment with their parents, and lead to problems in later years, including anxiety, mood, or behavioral problems. A parent’s depression, particularly in the postpartum period, represents a serious threat to the child’s healthy development and well-being.
Tell the parents that what they have described to you sounds like it could be a depressive episode and that depression has a serious impact on the whole family. Offer that their primary care physicians can evaluate and treat depression, or learn about other resources in your community that you can refer them to for accessible care.
Overwhelming stress
Is the newborn or special needs child feeling like more responsibility than the parents can handle? Where do the parents find support? Has there been a recent job loss or has there been a financial setback for the family? Is a spouse ill, or are they also caring for an aging parent? Has there been a separation from the spouse? Many adults face multiple significant stresses at the same time. It is not uncommon for working parents to be in “soldiering on” mode, just surviving. But this takes a toll on being present and engaged with the children, and puts them at risk for depression and substance abuse.
Acknowledge their stresses and point out that parents usually feel they simply must manage everything on their own. It can be so helpful to have access to a social worker who can help with resources, as parents may not have taken the time to seek help such as legal advice, an aide for the aging parent, or services for a disabled or chronically ill family member. It also can be powerful to offer them a few simple strategies for stress management. Point out that protecting time for sleep and a little time for exercise, relaxation, or pleasure (especially with the children) can feel good and leave them better equipped to manage their stress. It also models the kind of self-care they would like their own children to learn.
Traumatic stress
Have they recently experienced a crime or accident, the unexpected loss of a loved one, or threats or abuse at home? They may be grieving, or may be experiencing symptoms of posttraumatic stress disorder that lead them to appear distant and detached. Grief will improve with time, but they may benefit from extra support or from assistance with their responsibilities (a leave from work or more child care). If they have experienced a traumatic stress, they will need a clinical evaluation for potential treatment options. If they are being threatened or abused at home, you need to find out if their children have witnessed the abuse or may be victims as well. You can offer these parents resources for survivors of domestic abuse and speak with them about your obligation to file with your state’s agency responsible for children’s welfare. It is critical that you listen to any concerns they may have about this filing, from losing their children to enraging their abusers.
Beyond child neglect or abuse, if you suspect that parents are so detached that they may be unable to care for their children, you also can file. Ideally, this would raise parents’ awareness of the situation (chronic stress or depression) and offer them additional services that could address the underlying problem. Children with detached parents also will benefit from having as many caring, attentive adults as possible in their orbit. Find out who else is connected to them, from family members to teachers, coaches, or ministers. Suggest that their children would benefit from structured activities with a chance to connect with other caring adults.
A detached parent may make a child feel worried, worthless, or guilty. There is no substitute for a loving, engaged parent, and your brief interventions to help a parent reconnect with the child will be invaluable.
Dr. Swick is an attending psychiatrist in the division of child psychiatry at Massachusetts General Hospital, Boston, and director of the Parenting at a Challenging Time (PACT) Program at the Vernon Cancer Center at Newton Wellesley Hospital, also in Boston. Dr. Jellinek is professor emeritus of psychiatry and pediatrics, Harvard Medical School, Boston. Email them at pdnews@mdedge.com
While most of the parents you will see in your office will be thoughtful, engaged, and even anxious, occasionally you will encounter parents who seem detached from their children. Spending just a few extra minutes to understand this detachment could mean an enormous difference in the psychological health and developmental well-being of your patient.
It is striking when you see it: Flat affect, little eye contact, no questions or comments. If the parents seem unconnected to their children, it is worth being curious about it. Whether they are constantly on their phones or just disengaged, you should start by directing a question straight to them. Perhaps a question about the child’s sleep, appetite, or school performance is a good place to start. You would like to assess their knowledge of the child’s development, performance at school, friendships, and interests, to ensure that they are up to date and paying attention.
Once alone, you might start by offering your impression of how the child is doing, then observe that you noticed that they (the parents) seem quiet or distant. The following questions should help you better understand the nature of their detachment.
Depression
Ask about how they are sleeping. If the child is very young or the parents have a difficult work schedule, they might simply be sleep deprived, which you might help them address. Difficulty sleeping also can be a symptom of depression. Have they noticed any changes in their appetite or energy? Is it harder to concentrate? Have they felt more tearful, sad, or irritable? Have they noticed that they don’t get as much pleasure from things that usually bring them joy? Do they worry about being a burden to others? Major depressive disorder is relatively common, affecting as many as one in five women in the postpartum period and one in ten women generally.
Men experience depression at about half that rate, according the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. It is a condition that can cause feelings of guilt and shame, so many suffer silently, missing the chance for treatment and raising the risk for suicide. Infants of depressed mothers often appear listless and may be fussier about sleeping and eating, which can exacerbate poor attachment with their parents, and lead to problems in later years, including anxiety, mood, or behavioral problems. A parent’s depression, particularly in the postpartum period, represents a serious threat to the child’s healthy development and well-being.
Tell the parents that what they have described to you sounds like it could be a depressive episode and that depression has a serious impact on the whole family. Offer that their primary care physicians can evaluate and treat depression, or learn about other resources in your community that you can refer them to for accessible care.
Overwhelming stress
Is the newborn or special needs child feeling like more responsibility than the parents can handle? Where do the parents find support? Has there been a recent job loss or has there been a financial setback for the family? Is a spouse ill, or are they also caring for an aging parent? Has there been a separation from the spouse? Many adults face multiple significant stresses at the same time. It is not uncommon for working parents to be in “soldiering on” mode, just surviving. But this takes a toll on being present and engaged with the children, and puts them at risk for depression and substance abuse.
Acknowledge their stresses and point out that parents usually feel they simply must manage everything on their own. It can be so helpful to have access to a social worker who can help with resources, as parents may not have taken the time to seek help such as legal advice, an aide for the aging parent, or services for a disabled or chronically ill family member. It also can be powerful to offer them a few simple strategies for stress management. Point out that protecting time for sleep and a little time for exercise, relaxation, or pleasure (especially with the children) can feel good and leave them better equipped to manage their stress. It also models the kind of self-care they would like their own children to learn.
Traumatic stress
Have they recently experienced a crime or accident, the unexpected loss of a loved one, or threats or abuse at home? They may be grieving, or may be experiencing symptoms of posttraumatic stress disorder that lead them to appear distant and detached. Grief will improve with time, but they may benefit from extra support or from assistance with their responsibilities (a leave from work or more child care). If they have experienced a traumatic stress, they will need a clinical evaluation for potential treatment options. If they are being threatened or abused at home, you need to find out if their children have witnessed the abuse or may be victims as well. You can offer these parents resources for survivors of domestic abuse and speak with them about your obligation to file with your state’s agency responsible for children’s welfare. It is critical that you listen to any concerns they may have about this filing, from losing their children to enraging their abusers.
Beyond child neglect or abuse, if you suspect that parents are so detached that they may be unable to care for their children, you also can file. Ideally, this would raise parents’ awareness of the situation (chronic stress or depression) and offer them additional services that could address the underlying problem. Children with detached parents also will benefit from having as many caring, attentive adults as possible in their orbit. Find out who else is connected to them, from family members to teachers, coaches, or ministers. Suggest that their children would benefit from structured activities with a chance to connect with other caring adults.
A detached parent may make a child feel worried, worthless, or guilty. There is no substitute for a loving, engaged parent, and your brief interventions to help a parent reconnect with the child will be invaluable.
Dr. Swick is an attending psychiatrist in the division of child psychiatry at Massachusetts General Hospital, Boston, and director of the Parenting at a Challenging Time (PACT) Program at the Vernon Cancer Center at Newton Wellesley Hospital, also in Boston. Dr. Jellinek is professor emeritus of psychiatry and pediatrics, Harvard Medical School, Boston. Email them at pdnews@mdedge.com
While most of the parents you will see in your office will be thoughtful, engaged, and even anxious, occasionally you will encounter parents who seem detached from their children. Spending just a few extra minutes to understand this detachment could mean an enormous difference in the psychological health and developmental well-being of your patient.
It is striking when you see it: Flat affect, little eye contact, no questions or comments. If the parents seem unconnected to their children, it is worth being curious about it. Whether they are constantly on their phones or just disengaged, you should start by directing a question straight to them. Perhaps a question about the child’s sleep, appetite, or school performance is a good place to start. You would like to assess their knowledge of the child’s development, performance at school, friendships, and interests, to ensure that they are up to date and paying attention.
Once alone, you might start by offering your impression of how the child is doing, then observe that you noticed that they (the parents) seem quiet or distant. The following questions should help you better understand the nature of their detachment.
Depression
Ask about how they are sleeping. If the child is very young or the parents have a difficult work schedule, they might simply be sleep deprived, which you might help them address. Difficulty sleeping also can be a symptom of depression. Have they noticed any changes in their appetite or energy? Is it harder to concentrate? Have they felt more tearful, sad, or irritable? Have they noticed that they don’t get as much pleasure from things that usually bring them joy? Do they worry about being a burden to others? Major depressive disorder is relatively common, affecting as many as one in five women in the postpartum period and one in ten women generally.
Men experience depression at about half that rate, according the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. It is a condition that can cause feelings of guilt and shame, so many suffer silently, missing the chance for treatment and raising the risk for suicide. Infants of depressed mothers often appear listless and may be fussier about sleeping and eating, which can exacerbate poor attachment with their parents, and lead to problems in later years, including anxiety, mood, or behavioral problems. A parent’s depression, particularly in the postpartum period, represents a serious threat to the child’s healthy development and well-being.
Tell the parents that what they have described to you sounds like it could be a depressive episode and that depression has a serious impact on the whole family. Offer that their primary care physicians can evaluate and treat depression, or learn about other resources in your community that you can refer them to for accessible care.
Overwhelming stress
Is the newborn or special needs child feeling like more responsibility than the parents can handle? Where do the parents find support? Has there been a recent job loss or has there been a financial setback for the family? Is a spouse ill, or are they also caring for an aging parent? Has there been a separation from the spouse? Many adults face multiple significant stresses at the same time. It is not uncommon for working parents to be in “soldiering on” mode, just surviving. But this takes a toll on being present and engaged with the children, and puts them at risk for depression and substance abuse.
Acknowledge their stresses and point out that parents usually feel they simply must manage everything on their own. It can be so helpful to have access to a social worker who can help with resources, as parents may not have taken the time to seek help such as legal advice, an aide for the aging parent, or services for a disabled or chronically ill family member. It also can be powerful to offer them a few simple strategies for stress management. Point out that protecting time for sleep and a little time for exercise, relaxation, or pleasure (especially with the children) can feel good and leave them better equipped to manage their stress. It also models the kind of self-care they would like their own children to learn.
Traumatic stress
Have they recently experienced a crime or accident, the unexpected loss of a loved one, or threats or abuse at home? They may be grieving, or may be experiencing symptoms of posttraumatic stress disorder that lead them to appear distant and detached. Grief will improve with time, but they may benefit from extra support or from assistance with their responsibilities (a leave from work or more child care). If they have experienced a traumatic stress, they will need a clinical evaluation for potential treatment options. If they are being threatened or abused at home, you need to find out if their children have witnessed the abuse or may be victims as well. You can offer these parents resources for survivors of domestic abuse and speak with them about your obligation to file with your state’s agency responsible for children’s welfare. It is critical that you listen to any concerns they may have about this filing, from losing their children to enraging their abusers.
Beyond child neglect or abuse, if you suspect that parents are so detached that they may be unable to care for their children, you also can file. Ideally, this would raise parents’ awareness of the situation (chronic stress or depression) and offer them additional services that could address the underlying problem. Children with detached parents also will benefit from having as many caring, attentive adults as possible in their orbit. Find out who else is connected to them, from family members to teachers, coaches, or ministers. Suggest that their children would benefit from structured activities with a chance to connect with other caring adults.
A detached parent may make a child feel worried, worthless, or guilty. There is no substitute for a loving, engaged parent, and your brief interventions to help a parent reconnect with the child will be invaluable.
Dr. Swick is an attending psychiatrist in the division of child psychiatry at Massachusetts General Hospital, Boston, and director of the Parenting at a Challenging Time (PACT) Program at the Vernon Cancer Center at Newton Wellesley Hospital, also in Boston. Dr. Jellinek is professor emeritus of psychiatry and pediatrics, Harvard Medical School, Boston. Email them at pdnews@mdedge.com
Engaging skeptical parents
While every day seems to bring extraordinary new advances in science – robotic surgery, individually targeted medications, and even gene therapy – there are many people who currently approach the science of medicine with skepticism.
While it is the right of legally competent adults in a free society to chose how best to care for their own health, to explore holistic or alternative therapies, or avoid medicine altogether, it is more complex when they are skeptical of accepted medical practice in managing the health of their children. For those parents who trust you enough to bring their children to you for care but remain skeptical of vaccines or other treatments, you have an opportunity to work with that trust and engage in a discussion so that they might reconsider their position on valuable and even life-saving treatments for their children.
In each of these cases, launching into an enthusiastic explanation of the advanced statistics that underpin your recommendation is unlikely to bridge the gap. Instead, you want to start with these parents by being curious. Resist the urge to tell, and listen instead. What is their understanding of the problem you are treating or preventing? What have they heard or read about the treatment or test in question? What do they most fear is going to happen to their child if they do or do not accept your recommendation? Are there specific events (with their child or with the health care system) that have informed this fear?
Respectfully listening to their experiences, thoughts, and feelings goes a long way toward building a trusting alliance. It can help overcome feelings of distrust or defensiveness around authority figures. And it models the thoughtful, respectful give and take that are essential to a healthy collaboration between pediatrician and parents.
Once you have heard something about their understanding, opinions, and worries, resist the urge to then explain how they are mistaken! Instead, find out where their trusted information comes from. When you are making important decisions for your family, whose guidance do you seek? Whose support is important to you when managing a challenge with your family? It can be helpful to ask whether there have been other times when they went their own way in raising their child, perhaps at school. How did that go? Was there a lot of conflict or involvement of authorities, such as the Department of Children and Families? Or was it more collaborative? If they go their own way, what markers do they watch to be sure they are on track? Put another way, how would they know if it was time to give another approach a try?
Once you have information about what they think and some about how they think and make decisions, you then can offer your perspective. “You are the expert on your child, what I bring to this equation is experience with (this problem) and with assessing the scientific evidence that guides treatments in medicine. It is true that treatments often change as we learn more, but here is what the evidence currently supports.”
After learning something about how they think, you might offer more data or more warm acknowledgment of how difficult it can be to make medical decisions for your children with imperfect information. Be humble while also being accurate about your level of confidence in a recommendation. Humility is important because it is easy for parents to feel insecure and condescended to. You understand their greatest fear, now let them know what your greatest worry is for their child should they forgo a recommended treatment. Explaining all of this with humility and warmth makes it more likely that the parents will take in the facts you are trying to share with them and not be derailed by suspicion, defensiveness, or insecurity.
Make building an alliance with the parents your top priority. This does not mean that you do not offer your best recommendation for their child. Rather, it means that, if they still decline recommended treatment, you treat them with respect and invest your time in explaining what they should be watching or monitoring their child for without recommended treatment. Building trust is a long game. If you patiently stick with parents even when it’s not easy, they may be ready to trust you with a subsequent decision when the stakes are even higher.
Of course, there may come a time when a parent’s refusal to accept recommended treatment constitutes medical neglect. The decision to file with your state’s Department of Children and Families (or equivalent) should be guided by the severity of the potential consequences to the child, and it will help if you are confident that the parents understood your recommendations and associated risks and benefits. Where there is imminent risk, the law gives you no choice about the decision to file. If you have invested in a strong alliance with the parents, it will be easier to explain filing and its consequences to them. It may even be that they will want to continue with your practice in the aftermath, as they trust in your honesty, your dedication to their child’s health and safety, and your capacity to treat them with respect even in disagreement.
Of course, all this thoughtful communication takes a lot of time! You may learn to block off more time for certain families. It also can be helpful to have these conversations as a team. If you and your nurse or social worker can meet with parents together, then some of the listening and learning can be done by the nurse or social worker alone, so that everyone’s time might be managed more efficiently. And managing skeptical parents as a team also can help to prevent frustration or burnout. It will not always succeed, but in some cases, your investment will pay off in a trusting alliance, mutual respect, and healthy patients.
Dr. Swick is an attending psychiatrist in the division of child psychiatry at Massachusetts General Hospital, Boston, and director of the Parenting at a Challenging Time (PACT) Program at the Vernon Cancer Center at Newton Wellesley Hospital, also in Boston. Dr. Jellinek is professor emeritus of psychiatry and pediatrics at Harvard Medical School, Boston. Email them at pdnews@mdedge.com.
While every day seems to bring extraordinary new advances in science – robotic surgery, individually targeted medications, and even gene therapy – there are many people who currently approach the science of medicine with skepticism.
While it is the right of legally competent adults in a free society to chose how best to care for their own health, to explore holistic or alternative therapies, or avoid medicine altogether, it is more complex when they are skeptical of accepted medical practice in managing the health of their children. For those parents who trust you enough to bring their children to you for care but remain skeptical of vaccines or other treatments, you have an opportunity to work with that trust and engage in a discussion so that they might reconsider their position on valuable and even life-saving treatments for their children.
In each of these cases, launching into an enthusiastic explanation of the advanced statistics that underpin your recommendation is unlikely to bridge the gap. Instead, you want to start with these parents by being curious. Resist the urge to tell, and listen instead. What is their understanding of the problem you are treating or preventing? What have they heard or read about the treatment or test in question? What do they most fear is going to happen to their child if they do or do not accept your recommendation? Are there specific events (with their child or with the health care system) that have informed this fear?
Respectfully listening to their experiences, thoughts, and feelings goes a long way toward building a trusting alliance. It can help overcome feelings of distrust or defensiveness around authority figures. And it models the thoughtful, respectful give and take that are essential to a healthy collaboration between pediatrician and parents.
Once you have heard something about their understanding, opinions, and worries, resist the urge to then explain how they are mistaken! Instead, find out where their trusted information comes from. When you are making important decisions for your family, whose guidance do you seek? Whose support is important to you when managing a challenge with your family? It can be helpful to ask whether there have been other times when they went their own way in raising their child, perhaps at school. How did that go? Was there a lot of conflict or involvement of authorities, such as the Department of Children and Families? Or was it more collaborative? If they go their own way, what markers do they watch to be sure they are on track? Put another way, how would they know if it was time to give another approach a try?
Once you have information about what they think and some about how they think and make decisions, you then can offer your perspective. “You are the expert on your child, what I bring to this equation is experience with (this problem) and with assessing the scientific evidence that guides treatments in medicine. It is true that treatments often change as we learn more, but here is what the evidence currently supports.”
After learning something about how they think, you might offer more data or more warm acknowledgment of how difficult it can be to make medical decisions for your children with imperfect information. Be humble while also being accurate about your level of confidence in a recommendation. Humility is important because it is easy for parents to feel insecure and condescended to. You understand their greatest fear, now let them know what your greatest worry is for their child should they forgo a recommended treatment. Explaining all of this with humility and warmth makes it more likely that the parents will take in the facts you are trying to share with them and not be derailed by suspicion, defensiveness, or insecurity.
Make building an alliance with the parents your top priority. This does not mean that you do not offer your best recommendation for their child. Rather, it means that, if they still decline recommended treatment, you treat them with respect and invest your time in explaining what they should be watching or monitoring their child for without recommended treatment. Building trust is a long game. If you patiently stick with parents even when it’s not easy, they may be ready to trust you with a subsequent decision when the stakes are even higher.
Of course, there may come a time when a parent’s refusal to accept recommended treatment constitutes medical neglect. The decision to file with your state’s Department of Children and Families (or equivalent) should be guided by the severity of the potential consequences to the child, and it will help if you are confident that the parents understood your recommendations and associated risks and benefits. Where there is imminent risk, the law gives you no choice about the decision to file. If you have invested in a strong alliance with the parents, it will be easier to explain filing and its consequences to them. It may even be that they will want to continue with your practice in the aftermath, as they trust in your honesty, your dedication to their child’s health and safety, and your capacity to treat them with respect even in disagreement.
Of course, all this thoughtful communication takes a lot of time! You may learn to block off more time for certain families. It also can be helpful to have these conversations as a team. If you and your nurse or social worker can meet with parents together, then some of the listening and learning can be done by the nurse or social worker alone, so that everyone’s time might be managed more efficiently. And managing skeptical parents as a team also can help to prevent frustration or burnout. It will not always succeed, but in some cases, your investment will pay off in a trusting alliance, mutual respect, and healthy patients.
Dr. Swick is an attending psychiatrist in the division of child psychiatry at Massachusetts General Hospital, Boston, and director of the Parenting at a Challenging Time (PACT) Program at the Vernon Cancer Center at Newton Wellesley Hospital, also in Boston. Dr. Jellinek is professor emeritus of psychiatry and pediatrics at Harvard Medical School, Boston. Email them at pdnews@mdedge.com.
While every day seems to bring extraordinary new advances in science – robotic surgery, individually targeted medications, and even gene therapy – there are many people who currently approach the science of medicine with skepticism.
While it is the right of legally competent adults in a free society to chose how best to care for their own health, to explore holistic or alternative therapies, or avoid medicine altogether, it is more complex when they are skeptical of accepted medical practice in managing the health of their children. For those parents who trust you enough to bring their children to you for care but remain skeptical of vaccines or other treatments, you have an opportunity to work with that trust and engage in a discussion so that they might reconsider their position on valuable and even life-saving treatments for their children.
In each of these cases, launching into an enthusiastic explanation of the advanced statistics that underpin your recommendation is unlikely to bridge the gap. Instead, you want to start with these parents by being curious. Resist the urge to tell, and listen instead. What is their understanding of the problem you are treating or preventing? What have they heard or read about the treatment or test in question? What do they most fear is going to happen to their child if they do or do not accept your recommendation? Are there specific events (with their child or with the health care system) that have informed this fear?
Respectfully listening to their experiences, thoughts, and feelings goes a long way toward building a trusting alliance. It can help overcome feelings of distrust or defensiveness around authority figures. And it models the thoughtful, respectful give and take that are essential to a healthy collaboration between pediatrician and parents.
Once you have heard something about their understanding, opinions, and worries, resist the urge to then explain how they are mistaken! Instead, find out where their trusted information comes from. When you are making important decisions for your family, whose guidance do you seek? Whose support is important to you when managing a challenge with your family? It can be helpful to ask whether there have been other times when they went their own way in raising their child, perhaps at school. How did that go? Was there a lot of conflict or involvement of authorities, such as the Department of Children and Families? Or was it more collaborative? If they go their own way, what markers do they watch to be sure they are on track? Put another way, how would they know if it was time to give another approach a try?
Once you have information about what they think and some about how they think and make decisions, you then can offer your perspective. “You are the expert on your child, what I bring to this equation is experience with (this problem) and with assessing the scientific evidence that guides treatments in medicine. It is true that treatments often change as we learn more, but here is what the evidence currently supports.”
After learning something about how they think, you might offer more data or more warm acknowledgment of how difficult it can be to make medical decisions for your children with imperfect information. Be humble while also being accurate about your level of confidence in a recommendation. Humility is important because it is easy for parents to feel insecure and condescended to. You understand their greatest fear, now let them know what your greatest worry is for their child should they forgo a recommended treatment. Explaining all of this with humility and warmth makes it more likely that the parents will take in the facts you are trying to share with them and not be derailed by suspicion, defensiveness, or insecurity.
Make building an alliance with the parents your top priority. This does not mean that you do not offer your best recommendation for their child. Rather, it means that, if they still decline recommended treatment, you treat them with respect and invest your time in explaining what they should be watching or monitoring their child for without recommended treatment. Building trust is a long game. If you patiently stick with parents even when it’s not easy, they may be ready to trust you with a subsequent decision when the stakes are even higher.
Of course, there may come a time when a parent’s refusal to accept recommended treatment constitutes medical neglect. The decision to file with your state’s Department of Children and Families (or equivalent) should be guided by the severity of the potential consequences to the child, and it will help if you are confident that the parents understood your recommendations and associated risks and benefits. Where there is imminent risk, the law gives you no choice about the decision to file. If you have invested in a strong alliance with the parents, it will be easier to explain filing and its consequences to them. It may even be that they will want to continue with your practice in the aftermath, as they trust in your honesty, your dedication to their child’s health and safety, and your capacity to treat them with respect even in disagreement.
Of course, all this thoughtful communication takes a lot of time! You may learn to block off more time for certain families. It also can be helpful to have these conversations as a team. If you and your nurse or social worker can meet with parents together, then some of the listening and learning can be done by the nurse or social worker alone, so that everyone’s time might be managed more efficiently. And managing skeptical parents as a team also can help to prevent frustration or burnout. It will not always succeed, but in some cases, your investment will pay off in a trusting alliance, mutual respect, and healthy patients.
Dr. Swick is an attending psychiatrist in the division of child psychiatry at Massachusetts General Hospital, Boston, and director of the Parenting at a Challenging Time (PACT) Program at the Vernon Cancer Center at Newton Wellesley Hospital, also in Boston. Dr. Jellinek is professor emeritus of psychiatry and pediatrics at Harvard Medical School, Boston. Email them at pdnews@mdedge.com.
Anxiety in teens
It seems that every week there is a new headline about the rising rates of anxiety in today’s adolescents. Schools often are asked to address high levels of stress and anxiety in their students, and the pediatrician’s office is often the first place worried parents will call. We will try to help you differentiate between what is normal – even healthy – adolescent stress, and what might represent treatable psychiatric problems. And we will review how to approach stress management with your patients and their parents. For all adolescents, even those with psychiatric diagnoses, learning to manage stress and anxiety is critical to their healthiest development into capable, confident, resilient adults.
Stress is the mental or emotional strain resulting from demanding or adverse circumstances. Anxiety is a feeling of unease about an imminent event with an uncertain outcome. An anxiety disorder is a psychiatric illness characterized by a state of excessive unease leading to functional impairment. These distinctions are critical, as both stress and anxiety are normal-but-uncomfortable parts of the adolescent experience. When all of a teenager’s stress and anxiety is medicalized, it promotes avoidance, which in turn may worsen your patient’s functional impairment rather than improving it.
This is not to suggest that there are not real (and common) psychiatric illnesses that can affect the levels of anxiety in your patients. Anxiety disorders start the earliest, with separation anxiety disorder, specific phobia, and social phobia all having a mean onset before puberty. Anxiety disorders are the most prevalent psychiatric disorders in youth (30% of youth psychiatric illness), and anxiety also may be related to substance use disorders (25%), disruptive behavior disorders (20%), and mood disorders (17%). Despite the excited news coverage, there is no evidence of a statistically significant increase in the incidence of anxiety or mood disorders in young people over the past decade.
It is not difficult to imagine that the challenges facing adolescents are considerable. Of course, adolescence is a time of major change starting with puberty, in which young people actively develop independence, identity, and a rich array of deep relationships beyond their families. Typically, this is a 5- to 10-year process of risk-taking, new experiences, setbacks, delight, heartbreak, and triumphs all alongside growing autonomy.
These forces may make their parents even more stressed than the adolescents themselves, but there is one dramatically different feature of adolescent life today: the constant presence of smartphones. While these devices can improve connectedness to school, family, and friends, use of smartphones also means that today’s teenagers often have little downtime cognitively or socially. Use of smartphones can facilitate both supportive affirmation from friends and relentless social pressures, and the feeling of being excluded or bullied. Smartphone use can interfere with restful sleep, and some virtual activities may compete with the genuine experimentation and exploration where teenagers discover their interests and abilities and develop meaningful confidence and independence.
Several factors might impair an adolescent’s ability to cope with challenge and stress. Those teenagers who have not had the opportunity to face and manage modest setbacks, difficulties, and discomforts during their elementary and middle school years may be overwhelmed by starting with the higher-stakes strains of adolescence. This can happen when young children have not explored many new activities, have been shielded from the consequences of failures, or have tried only activities that came easily to them. Certainly, teenagers who are managing a depressive or anxiety disorder as well as those with learning disabilities may have limited ability to cope with routine stress, although those who have a well-treated disorder often have robust coping skills.
Perhaps obvious, but still very important, chronic sleep deprivation can leave adolescents irritable, impatient, and distractible, all of which make coping with a challenge very difficult. Likewise, substance use can directly impair coping skills, and can create the habit of trying to escape stress rather than manage it.
So what does this mean for you? If your patient has an anxiety, depressive, or substance use disorder, refer for appropriate therapy. For both those who screen in and those who do not, your next task is to help them improve their coping skills. What specifically has them so stressed?
Are there family stressors or unrealistic expectations that can be addressed? Can they see their situation as a challenge and focus on what is within their control to do in response? Remind your patients that challenges are uncomfortable. Mastery comes with practice and, inevitably, some setbacks and failures. Have they identified personal goals or a transcendent purpose? This can improve motivation and keep a challenge in perspective. They might focus on learning about their coping style: Do they do better with a slow, steady, methodical approach or intense bursts of effort? Talk with them about self-care. Adequate sleep, regular exercise, putting effort into relaxation as well as work, and spending time with their actual (not just virtual) friends all are essential to keeping their batteries charged while doing the intense work of normal adolescence.
For those patients who do not meet criteria for depression or anxiety disorders, there are circumstances in which a referral for therapy can be helpful. If they are noticeably disconnected from their parents or their parents seem to be more reactive to the stress and pressures than they are, an outside therapist can be a meaningful support as they build skills. Those patients who are socially isolated and stressed, are using substances regularly, are withdrawing from other interests to manage their source of stress, or are having difficulty telling facts from feelings are at risk for failing to adequately manage their stress and for the development of psychiatric problems. Starting early, helping them to build autonomy as preadolescents, experiencing successes and failures, begins the cultivation of resilience and meaningful confidence they will need during adolescence. Your attention and guidance can help all of your adolescent patients improve their coping and lower both their stress and their anxiety.
It seems that every week there is a new headline about the rising rates of anxiety in today’s adolescents. Schools often are asked to address high levels of stress and anxiety in their students, and the pediatrician’s office is often the first place worried parents will call. We will try to help you differentiate between what is normal – even healthy – adolescent stress, and what might represent treatable psychiatric problems. And we will review how to approach stress management with your patients and their parents. For all adolescents, even those with psychiatric diagnoses, learning to manage stress and anxiety is critical to their healthiest development into capable, confident, resilient adults.
Stress is the mental or emotional strain resulting from demanding or adverse circumstances. Anxiety is a feeling of unease about an imminent event with an uncertain outcome. An anxiety disorder is a psychiatric illness characterized by a state of excessive unease leading to functional impairment. These distinctions are critical, as both stress and anxiety are normal-but-uncomfortable parts of the adolescent experience. When all of a teenager’s stress and anxiety is medicalized, it promotes avoidance, which in turn may worsen your patient’s functional impairment rather than improving it.
This is not to suggest that there are not real (and common) psychiatric illnesses that can affect the levels of anxiety in your patients. Anxiety disorders start the earliest, with separation anxiety disorder, specific phobia, and social phobia all having a mean onset before puberty. Anxiety disorders are the most prevalent psychiatric disorders in youth (30% of youth psychiatric illness), and anxiety also may be related to substance use disorders (25%), disruptive behavior disorders (20%), and mood disorders (17%). Despite the excited news coverage, there is no evidence of a statistically significant increase in the incidence of anxiety or mood disorders in young people over the past decade.
It is not difficult to imagine that the challenges facing adolescents are considerable. Of course, adolescence is a time of major change starting with puberty, in which young people actively develop independence, identity, and a rich array of deep relationships beyond their families. Typically, this is a 5- to 10-year process of risk-taking, new experiences, setbacks, delight, heartbreak, and triumphs all alongside growing autonomy.
These forces may make their parents even more stressed than the adolescents themselves, but there is one dramatically different feature of adolescent life today: the constant presence of smartphones. While these devices can improve connectedness to school, family, and friends, use of smartphones also means that today’s teenagers often have little downtime cognitively or socially. Use of smartphones can facilitate both supportive affirmation from friends and relentless social pressures, and the feeling of being excluded or bullied. Smartphone use can interfere with restful sleep, and some virtual activities may compete with the genuine experimentation and exploration where teenagers discover their interests and abilities and develop meaningful confidence and independence.
Several factors might impair an adolescent’s ability to cope with challenge and stress. Those teenagers who have not had the opportunity to face and manage modest setbacks, difficulties, and discomforts during their elementary and middle school years may be overwhelmed by starting with the higher-stakes strains of adolescence. This can happen when young children have not explored many new activities, have been shielded from the consequences of failures, or have tried only activities that came easily to them. Certainly, teenagers who are managing a depressive or anxiety disorder as well as those with learning disabilities may have limited ability to cope with routine stress, although those who have a well-treated disorder often have robust coping skills.
Perhaps obvious, but still very important, chronic sleep deprivation can leave adolescents irritable, impatient, and distractible, all of which make coping with a challenge very difficult. Likewise, substance use can directly impair coping skills, and can create the habit of trying to escape stress rather than manage it.
So what does this mean for you? If your patient has an anxiety, depressive, or substance use disorder, refer for appropriate therapy. For both those who screen in and those who do not, your next task is to help them improve their coping skills. What specifically has them so stressed?
Are there family stressors or unrealistic expectations that can be addressed? Can they see their situation as a challenge and focus on what is within their control to do in response? Remind your patients that challenges are uncomfortable. Mastery comes with practice and, inevitably, some setbacks and failures. Have they identified personal goals or a transcendent purpose? This can improve motivation and keep a challenge in perspective. They might focus on learning about their coping style: Do they do better with a slow, steady, methodical approach or intense bursts of effort? Talk with them about self-care. Adequate sleep, regular exercise, putting effort into relaxation as well as work, and spending time with their actual (not just virtual) friends all are essential to keeping their batteries charged while doing the intense work of normal adolescence.
For those patients who do not meet criteria for depression or anxiety disorders, there are circumstances in which a referral for therapy can be helpful. If they are noticeably disconnected from their parents or their parents seem to be more reactive to the stress and pressures than they are, an outside therapist can be a meaningful support as they build skills. Those patients who are socially isolated and stressed, are using substances regularly, are withdrawing from other interests to manage their source of stress, or are having difficulty telling facts from feelings are at risk for failing to adequately manage their stress and for the development of psychiatric problems. Starting early, helping them to build autonomy as preadolescents, experiencing successes and failures, begins the cultivation of resilience and meaningful confidence they will need during adolescence. Your attention and guidance can help all of your adolescent patients improve their coping and lower both their stress and their anxiety.
It seems that every week there is a new headline about the rising rates of anxiety in today’s adolescents. Schools often are asked to address high levels of stress and anxiety in their students, and the pediatrician’s office is often the first place worried parents will call. We will try to help you differentiate between what is normal – even healthy – adolescent stress, and what might represent treatable psychiatric problems. And we will review how to approach stress management with your patients and their parents. For all adolescents, even those with psychiatric diagnoses, learning to manage stress and anxiety is critical to their healthiest development into capable, confident, resilient adults.
Stress is the mental or emotional strain resulting from demanding or adverse circumstances. Anxiety is a feeling of unease about an imminent event with an uncertain outcome. An anxiety disorder is a psychiatric illness characterized by a state of excessive unease leading to functional impairment. These distinctions are critical, as both stress and anxiety are normal-but-uncomfortable parts of the adolescent experience. When all of a teenager’s stress and anxiety is medicalized, it promotes avoidance, which in turn may worsen your patient’s functional impairment rather than improving it.
This is not to suggest that there are not real (and common) psychiatric illnesses that can affect the levels of anxiety in your patients. Anxiety disorders start the earliest, with separation anxiety disorder, specific phobia, and social phobia all having a mean onset before puberty. Anxiety disorders are the most prevalent psychiatric disorders in youth (30% of youth psychiatric illness), and anxiety also may be related to substance use disorders (25%), disruptive behavior disorders (20%), and mood disorders (17%). Despite the excited news coverage, there is no evidence of a statistically significant increase in the incidence of anxiety or mood disorders in young people over the past decade.
It is not difficult to imagine that the challenges facing adolescents are considerable. Of course, adolescence is a time of major change starting with puberty, in which young people actively develop independence, identity, and a rich array of deep relationships beyond their families. Typically, this is a 5- to 10-year process of risk-taking, new experiences, setbacks, delight, heartbreak, and triumphs all alongside growing autonomy.
These forces may make their parents even more stressed than the adolescents themselves, but there is one dramatically different feature of adolescent life today: the constant presence of smartphones. While these devices can improve connectedness to school, family, and friends, use of smartphones also means that today’s teenagers often have little downtime cognitively or socially. Use of smartphones can facilitate both supportive affirmation from friends and relentless social pressures, and the feeling of being excluded or bullied. Smartphone use can interfere with restful sleep, and some virtual activities may compete with the genuine experimentation and exploration where teenagers discover their interests and abilities and develop meaningful confidence and independence.
Several factors might impair an adolescent’s ability to cope with challenge and stress. Those teenagers who have not had the opportunity to face and manage modest setbacks, difficulties, and discomforts during their elementary and middle school years may be overwhelmed by starting with the higher-stakes strains of adolescence. This can happen when young children have not explored many new activities, have been shielded from the consequences of failures, or have tried only activities that came easily to them. Certainly, teenagers who are managing a depressive or anxiety disorder as well as those with learning disabilities may have limited ability to cope with routine stress, although those who have a well-treated disorder often have robust coping skills.
Perhaps obvious, but still very important, chronic sleep deprivation can leave adolescents irritable, impatient, and distractible, all of which make coping with a challenge very difficult. Likewise, substance use can directly impair coping skills, and can create the habit of trying to escape stress rather than manage it.
So what does this mean for you? If your patient has an anxiety, depressive, or substance use disorder, refer for appropriate therapy. For both those who screen in and those who do not, your next task is to help them improve their coping skills. What specifically has them so stressed?
Are there family stressors or unrealistic expectations that can be addressed? Can they see their situation as a challenge and focus on what is within their control to do in response? Remind your patients that challenges are uncomfortable. Mastery comes with practice and, inevitably, some setbacks and failures. Have they identified personal goals or a transcendent purpose? This can improve motivation and keep a challenge in perspective. They might focus on learning about their coping style: Do they do better with a slow, steady, methodical approach or intense bursts of effort? Talk with them about self-care. Adequate sleep, regular exercise, putting effort into relaxation as well as work, and spending time with their actual (not just virtual) friends all are essential to keeping their batteries charged while doing the intense work of normal adolescence.
For those patients who do not meet criteria for depression or anxiety disorders, there are circumstances in which a referral for therapy can be helpful. If they are noticeably disconnected from their parents or their parents seem to be more reactive to the stress and pressures than they are, an outside therapist can be a meaningful support as they build skills. Those patients who are socially isolated and stressed, are using substances regularly, are withdrawing from other interests to manage their source of stress, or are having difficulty telling facts from feelings are at risk for failing to adequately manage their stress and for the development of psychiatric problems. Starting early, helping them to build autonomy as preadolescents, experiencing successes and failures, begins the cultivation of resilience and meaningful confidence they will need during adolescence. Your attention and guidance can help all of your adolescent patients improve their coping and lower both their stress and their anxiety.
Preventing substance use
Substance use disorders are affecting every pediatric practice as they are major contributors to morbidity and mortality in young people. With the ongoing risks of binge drinking, the current epidemic of opioid addiction and overdose deaths in the United States, and the shifting legal status and public perception of the risk of marijuana, how to deal with substance use disorders seems to be the focus of public conversation these days.
, such as parent education and early recognition in pediatric practice.Substance abuse risk
We cannot yet predict who can safely “experiment” with substances or who will develop dependency. However, there is information that we can use to identify those at greater risk. Youth who have a first-degree relative with a substance use disorder are at greater risk for developing such a disorder themselves, and this is especially so if there is a family history of alcoholism. Youth who suffer from a psychiatric illness, particularly from anxiety and mood disorders, have a special vulnerability to abusing substances, particularly when their underlying illness is untreated or incompletely treated. Youth with ADHD are at substantially elevated risk of developing substance use disorders, although there is a complex relationship between these two problems. The evidence currently suggests that for youth who began effective treatment prior to puberty, there is no elevation in risk, but for those who did not, there is a substantially elevated risk of substance use disorders. Finally, there has been research that indicates that children with a combination of sensation-seeking, high impulsivity, anxiety-sensitivity, and hopelessness are at the highest risk for substance use disorders.2
Prevention efforts you can make: To your patients
The first step in your prevention efforts is an open conversation about drugs and alcohol. Ask your middle schoolers about whether they have tried alcohol or any drugs. Have their friends? What are kids saying about alcohol? About marijuana? Vaping? Are there other substances that kids are talking about or trying? Be genuinely curious, warm, and nonjudgmental. Find out what they think the risks of these substances may be. If appropriate, offer them some education about known risks of substances to the developing brain, to school or athletic performance, and so on. You can teach them about other trusted resources, such as the National Institute on Drug Abuse (NIDA), which has a resource specifically for teens (teens.drugabuse.gov).
Be pragmatic. After learning about what is being used by their peers, think with them about how they could say no to trying a drink, a smoke, or something more without creating drama or drawing attention to themselves. Are they seeing worrisome problems at parties, or are their friends using substances? What should they do if they see a friend falling unconscious? Have they seen anyone in a dangerous situation? How do they handle driving? If an anxious or impulsive adolescent has a plan to respond in these situations, they are much more likely to follow their plan to delay or decline.
For your high school students and those heading off to college, provide a safe place to talk about what they have tried and whether they (or you) have any worries about substance use. You have a unique combination of clinical authority and expertise in them as individuals, and can help them meaningfully plan how to handle their choices. You might talk about the specific risks of binge drinking, from sexual assault to alcohol poisoning and permanent cognitive effects on their developing brains. They also can benefit from hearing about the actual risks of frequent marijuana use, including impaired cognitive performance (and permanent IQ decline), and ongoing risks to their still-developing brains. Don’t be surprised if your older adolescent patients want to educate you about risks. Be curious and humble, and don’t be afraid to go together to a third party for information. You should encourage their efforts to think critically, and be empathic to their dilemma as they try to balance risks against their drive to have new experiences, to be independent, and to be strongly connected to their peers.
Adolescents should hear about your concern about their specific risks with drugs and alcohol, such as a history of traumatic brain injury (concussion), a family history of drug or alcohol dependence, or their own diagnosis of anxiety, depression, or ADHD. You might point out that because they have not tried any drugs or alcohol in high school, they may be prone to having too much to drink when they first try it. Or you might observe that because they have an anxiety disorder, they are vulnerable to becoming dependent on alcohol. Hearing about their specific level of risk equips them to make wiser choices in the context of their growing autonomy.
Prevention efforts you can make: To the parents
Your other prevention strategies should include parents. Studies have shown that when parents have clear rules and expectations about drug and alcohol use, and are consistent about enforcing consequences in their home, their children are significantly less likely than their peers to have experimented with drugs or alcohol by their senior year in high school. Parents of children headed to middle school should hear about this fact, alongside accurate information about the risks associated with alcohol and specific drugs for the developing brain.
Parents also benefit from practical strategies on how to talk about drugs and alcohol with their children. Letting parents know that 5th or 6th grade is not too early to have a conversation in which they introduce their rules around drugs and alcohol. Parents should look for opportunities to talk often with their kids in less proscriptive ways about drugs and alcohol. Such opportunities can arise around stories in the news about sports stars, musicians, or television stars and drug or alcohol use. Or they may occur when watching a favorite television show or movie together. Talking about these issues in a less confrontational way, when the subject is a celebrity or character rather than your child, can make the conversation more open, comfortable, and useful for everyone.
Finally, parents need to hear that they can be effective disciplinarians, while also making clear to their children that safety comes first, and that their rules should have clear exceptions for safety. If the parents have a rule against any use of alcohol or drugs, there should be an exception if their child is out and feels unsafe. If they are drunk, or their driver has been drinking, they can call for a ride and will not be in (much) trouble. Rules don’t have to be draconian to be effective; they should always support honesty and safety first. This is a lot of territory to cover, and you do not have to be the only resource for parents. Reliable online resources, such as NIDA’s and SAMHSA’s websites, are full of useful information, and others, such as teen-safe.org, have detailed resources for parents in particular.
References
1. Hum Genet. 2012 Jun;131(6):779-89.
2. Alcohol Clin Exp Res. 2013 Jan;37(Suppl 1):E281-90.
Dr. Swick is an attending psychiatrist in the division of child psychiatry at Massachusetts General Hospital, Boston, and director of the Parenting at a Challenging Time (PACT) Program at the Vernon Cancer Center at Newton Wellesley Hospital, also in Boston. Dr. Jellinek is professor emeritus of psychiatry and pediatrics, Harvard Medical School, Boston.
Substance use disorders are affecting every pediatric practice as they are major contributors to morbidity and mortality in young people. With the ongoing risks of binge drinking, the current epidemic of opioid addiction and overdose deaths in the United States, and the shifting legal status and public perception of the risk of marijuana, how to deal with substance use disorders seems to be the focus of public conversation these days.
, such as parent education and early recognition in pediatric practice.Substance abuse risk
We cannot yet predict who can safely “experiment” with substances or who will develop dependency. However, there is information that we can use to identify those at greater risk. Youth who have a first-degree relative with a substance use disorder are at greater risk for developing such a disorder themselves, and this is especially so if there is a family history of alcoholism. Youth who suffer from a psychiatric illness, particularly from anxiety and mood disorders, have a special vulnerability to abusing substances, particularly when their underlying illness is untreated or incompletely treated. Youth with ADHD are at substantially elevated risk of developing substance use disorders, although there is a complex relationship between these two problems. The evidence currently suggests that for youth who began effective treatment prior to puberty, there is no elevation in risk, but for those who did not, there is a substantially elevated risk of substance use disorders. Finally, there has been research that indicates that children with a combination of sensation-seeking, high impulsivity, anxiety-sensitivity, and hopelessness are at the highest risk for substance use disorders.2
Prevention efforts you can make: To your patients
The first step in your prevention efforts is an open conversation about drugs and alcohol. Ask your middle schoolers about whether they have tried alcohol or any drugs. Have their friends? What are kids saying about alcohol? About marijuana? Vaping? Are there other substances that kids are talking about or trying? Be genuinely curious, warm, and nonjudgmental. Find out what they think the risks of these substances may be. If appropriate, offer them some education about known risks of substances to the developing brain, to school or athletic performance, and so on. You can teach them about other trusted resources, such as the National Institute on Drug Abuse (NIDA), which has a resource specifically for teens (teens.drugabuse.gov).
Be pragmatic. After learning about what is being used by their peers, think with them about how they could say no to trying a drink, a smoke, or something more without creating drama or drawing attention to themselves. Are they seeing worrisome problems at parties, or are their friends using substances? What should they do if they see a friend falling unconscious? Have they seen anyone in a dangerous situation? How do they handle driving? If an anxious or impulsive adolescent has a plan to respond in these situations, they are much more likely to follow their plan to delay or decline.
For your high school students and those heading off to college, provide a safe place to talk about what they have tried and whether they (or you) have any worries about substance use. You have a unique combination of clinical authority and expertise in them as individuals, and can help them meaningfully plan how to handle their choices. You might talk about the specific risks of binge drinking, from sexual assault to alcohol poisoning and permanent cognitive effects on their developing brains. They also can benefit from hearing about the actual risks of frequent marijuana use, including impaired cognitive performance (and permanent IQ decline), and ongoing risks to their still-developing brains. Don’t be surprised if your older adolescent patients want to educate you about risks. Be curious and humble, and don’t be afraid to go together to a third party for information. You should encourage their efforts to think critically, and be empathic to their dilemma as they try to balance risks against their drive to have new experiences, to be independent, and to be strongly connected to their peers.
Adolescents should hear about your concern about their specific risks with drugs and alcohol, such as a history of traumatic brain injury (concussion), a family history of drug or alcohol dependence, or their own diagnosis of anxiety, depression, or ADHD. You might point out that because they have not tried any drugs or alcohol in high school, they may be prone to having too much to drink when they first try it. Or you might observe that because they have an anxiety disorder, they are vulnerable to becoming dependent on alcohol. Hearing about their specific level of risk equips them to make wiser choices in the context of their growing autonomy.
Prevention efforts you can make: To the parents
Your other prevention strategies should include parents. Studies have shown that when parents have clear rules and expectations about drug and alcohol use, and are consistent about enforcing consequences in their home, their children are significantly less likely than their peers to have experimented with drugs or alcohol by their senior year in high school. Parents of children headed to middle school should hear about this fact, alongside accurate information about the risks associated with alcohol and specific drugs for the developing brain.
Parents also benefit from practical strategies on how to talk about drugs and alcohol with their children. Letting parents know that 5th or 6th grade is not too early to have a conversation in which they introduce their rules around drugs and alcohol. Parents should look for opportunities to talk often with their kids in less proscriptive ways about drugs and alcohol. Such opportunities can arise around stories in the news about sports stars, musicians, or television stars and drug or alcohol use. Or they may occur when watching a favorite television show or movie together. Talking about these issues in a less confrontational way, when the subject is a celebrity or character rather than your child, can make the conversation more open, comfortable, and useful for everyone.
Finally, parents need to hear that they can be effective disciplinarians, while also making clear to their children that safety comes first, and that their rules should have clear exceptions for safety. If the parents have a rule against any use of alcohol or drugs, there should be an exception if their child is out and feels unsafe. If they are drunk, or their driver has been drinking, they can call for a ride and will not be in (much) trouble. Rules don’t have to be draconian to be effective; they should always support honesty and safety first. This is a lot of territory to cover, and you do not have to be the only resource for parents. Reliable online resources, such as NIDA’s and SAMHSA’s websites, are full of useful information, and others, such as teen-safe.org, have detailed resources for parents in particular.
References
1. Hum Genet. 2012 Jun;131(6):779-89.
2. Alcohol Clin Exp Res. 2013 Jan;37(Suppl 1):E281-90.
Dr. Swick is an attending psychiatrist in the division of child psychiatry at Massachusetts General Hospital, Boston, and director of the Parenting at a Challenging Time (PACT) Program at the Vernon Cancer Center at Newton Wellesley Hospital, also in Boston. Dr. Jellinek is professor emeritus of psychiatry and pediatrics, Harvard Medical School, Boston.
Substance use disorders are affecting every pediatric practice as they are major contributors to morbidity and mortality in young people. With the ongoing risks of binge drinking, the current epidemic of opioid addiction and overdose deaths in the United States, and the shifting legal status and public perception of the risk of marijuana, how to deal with substance use disorders seems to be the focus of public conversation these days.
, such as parent education and early recognition in pediatric practice.Substance abuse risk
We cannot yet predict who can safely “experiment” with substances or who will develop dependency. However, there is information that we can use to identify those at greater risk. Youth who have a first-degree relative with a substance use disorder are at greater risk for developing such a disorder themselves, and this is especially so if there is a family history of alcoholism. Youth who suffer from a psychiatric illness, particularly from anxiety and mood disorders, have a special vulnerability to abusing substances, particularly when their underlying illness is untreated or incompletely treated. Youth with ADHD are at substantially elevated risk of developing substance use disorders, although there is a complex relationship between these two problems. The evidence currently suggests that for youth who began effective treatment prior to puberty, there is no elevation in risk, but for those who did not, there is a substantially elevated risk of substance use disorders. Finally, there has been research that indicates that children with a combination of sensation-seeking, high impulsivity, anxiety-sensitivity, and hopelessness are at the highest risk for substance use disorders.2
Prevention efforts you can make: To your patients
The first step in your prevention efforts is an open conversation about drugs and alcohol. Ask your middle schoolers about whether they have tried alcohol or any drugs. Have their friends? What are kids saying about alcohol? About marijuana? Vaping? Are there other substances that kids are talking about or trying? Be genuinely curious, warm, and nonjudgmental. Find out what they think the risks of these substances may be. If appropriate, offer them some education about known risks of substances to the developing brain, to school or athletic performance, and so on. You can teach them about other trusted resources, such as the National Institute on Drug Abuse (NIDA), which has a resource specifically for teens (teens.drugabuse.gov).
Be pragmatic. After learning about what is being used by their peers, think with them about how they could say no to trying a drink, a smoke, or something more without creating drama or drawing attention to themselves. Are they seeing worrisome problems at parties, or are their friends using substances? What should they do if they see a friend falling unconscious? Have they seen anyone in a dangerous situation? How do they handle driving? If an anxious or impulsive adolescent has a plan to respond in these situations, they are much more likely to follow their plan to delay or decline.
For your high school students and those heading off to college, provide a safe place to talk about what they have tried and whether they (or you) have any worries about substance use. You have a unique combination of clinical authority and expertise in them as individuals, and can help them meaningfully plan how to handle their choices. You might talk about the specific risks of binge drinking, from sexual assault to alcohol poisoning and permanent cognitive effects on their developing brains. They also can benefit from hearing about the actual risks of frequent marijuana use, including impaired cognitive performance (and permanent IQ decline), and ongoing risks to their still-developing brains. Don’t be surprised if your older adolescent patients want to educate you about risks. Be curious and humble, and don’t be afraid to go together to a third party for information. You should encourage their efforts to think critically, and be empathic to their dilemma as they try to balance risks against their drive to have new experiences, to be independent, and to be strongly connected to their peers.
Adolescents should hear about your concern about their specific risks with drugs and alcohol, such as a history of traumatic brain injury (concussion), a family history of drug or alcohol dependence, or their own diagnosis of anxiety, depression, or ADHD. You might point out that because they have not tried any drugs or alcohol in high school, they may be prone to having too much to drink when they first try it. Or you might observe that because they have an anxiety disorder, they are vulnerable to becoming dependent on alcohol. Hearing about their specific level of risk equips them to make wiser choices in the context of their growing autonomy.
Prevention efforts you can make: To the parents
Your other prevention strategies should include parents. Studies have shown that when parents have clear rules and expectations about drug and alcohol use, and are consistent about enforcing consequences in their home, their children are significantly less likely than their peers to have experimented with drugs or alcohol by their senior year in high school. Parents of children headed to middle school should hear about this fact, alongside accurate information about the risks associated with alcohol and specific drugs for the developing brain.
Parents also benefit from practical strategies on how to talk about drugs and alcohol with their children. Letting parents know that 5th or 6th grade is not too early to have a conversation in which they introduce their rules around drugs and alcohol. Parents should look for opportunities to talk often with their kids in less proscriptive ways about drugs and alcohol. Such opportunities can arise around stories in the news about sports stars, musicians, or television stars and drug or alcohol use. Or they may occur when watching a favorite television show or movie together. Talking about these issues in a less confrontational way, when the subject is a celebrity or character rather than your child, can make the conversation more open, comfortable, and useful for everyone.
Finally, parents need to hear that they can be effective disciplinarians, while also making clear to their children that safety comes first, and that their rules should have clear exceptions for safety. If the parents have a rule against any use of alcohol or drugs, there should be an exception if their child is out and feels unsafe. If they are drunk, or their driver has been drinking, they can call for a ride and will not be in (much) trouble. Rules don’t have to be draconian to be effective; they should always support honesty and safety first. This is a lot of territory to cover, and you do not have to be the only resource for parents. Reliable online resources, such as NIDA’s and SAMHSA’s websites, are full of useful information, and others, such as teen-safe.org, have detailed resources for parents in particular.
References
1. Hum Genet. 2012 Jun;131(6):779-89.
2. Alcohol Clin Exp Res. 2013 Jan;37(Suppl 1):E281-90.
Dr. Swick is an attending psychiatrist in the division of child psychiatry at Massachusetts General Hospital, Boston, and director of the Parenting at a Challenging Time (PACT) Program at the Vernon Cancer Center at Newton Wellesley Hospital, also in Boston. Dr. Jellinek is professor emeritus of psychiatry and pediatrics, Harvard Medical School, Boston.
Alternative therapies
Alternative therapies, from vitamins and supplements to meditation and acupuncture, have become increasingly popular treatments in the United States for many medical problems in the past few decades. In 2008, the National Institutes of Health reported that nearly 40% of adults and 12% of children had used “complementary or alternative medicine” (CAM) in the preceding year. Other surveys have suggested that closer to 30% of general pediatric patients and as many as 75% of adolescent patients have used CAM at least once. These treatments are especially popular for chronic conditions that are managed but not usually cured with current evidence-based treatments. Psychiatric conditions in childhood sometimes have a long course, and have effective but controversial treatments, as with stimulants for ADHD. Parents sometimes feel guilty about their child’s problem and want to use “natural” methods or deny the accepted understanding of their child’s illness. So it is not surprising that families may investigate alternative treatments, and such treatments have multiplied.
While there is evidence that parents and patients rarely discuss these treatments with their physicians, it is critical that you know what therapies your patients are using. You should focus on tolerance in the context of protecting the child from harm and improving the child’s functioning. If you have ever recommended chicken soup for a cold, then you have prescribed complementary medicine, so it is not a stretch for you to offer some input about the other alternative therapies your patients may be considering.
It is important to note that rigorous, case-controlled studies of efficacy of most alternative therapies are few in number and usually small in size (so any evidence of efficacy is weaker), and that the products themselves are not regulated by the Food and Drug Administration or other public body. This means that the family (and you) will have to do some homework to ensure that the therapy they purchase comes from a reputable source and is what it purports to be.
Many of the alternative therapies patients are investigating will be herbs or supplements. Omega-3 fatty acids are critical to multiple essential body functions, and are taken in primarily via certain foods, primarily fish and certain seeds and nuts. A deficiency in certain omega-3 fatty acids can cause problems in infant neurological development and put one at risk for heart disease, rheumatologic illness, and depression. Supplementation with Omega-3 fatty acids (eicosapentaenoic acid [EPA] and docosahexaenoic acid [DHA], specifically) has a solid evidence base as an effective adjunctive treatment for depression and bipolar disorder in adults. In addition, randomized, placebo-controlled, double-blind studies have demonstrated efficacy in treatment of children with mild to moderate ADHD at doses of 1,200 mg/day. There are some studies that have demonstrated improvement in hyperactivity in children with autism with supplementation at similar doses. These supplements have very low risk of side effects. They are a reasonable recommendation to your patients whose children have mild to moderate ADHD, and they want to manage it without stimulants.
Another alternative first-line psychiatric treatment patients may ask about is St. John’s Wort. Studies have demonstrated its moderate efficacy in the treatment of mild depression, but not in adolescents. It is worth noting that this supplement also has demonstrated potentially serious interactions with other medicines, including raising the risk of serotonin syndrome when combined with SSRIs and decreasing the efficacy of birth control. Another supplement, SAM-e (s-adenosyl-l-methionine), has demonstrated modest efficacy in small open-label studies in the treatment of depression, and has fewer side effects than St. John’s Wort. But its efficacy is not as robust as traditional antidepressants. N-acetyl cysteine, a protein that people usually get from their diets, is the treatment for acetaminophen overdose and carbon monoxide poisoning, and has been used in the treatment of amyotrophic lateral sclerosis and Alzheimer’s disease. There is growing evidence of its efficacy as a treatment for trichotillomania, compulsive nail biting, and compulsive skin picking, often associated with severe anxiety disorders such as obsessive compulsive disorder. It also has demonstrated efficacy as part of treatment for marijuana dependence, alongside behavioral therapy. Myoinositol, a sugar alcohol which can be produced by the body and is found in many foods, has been used at higher doses as a supplement in children and adolescents with bipolar disorder, as an adjunct to treatment with some promising results. When families are considering adding one of these supplements to improve the efficacy of treatment of a complex psychiatric illness, you should feel comfortable referring their questions to their psychiatrist.
Families also may be considering physical or mechanical treatments. Acupuncture has demonstrated efficacy in the treatment of fatigue and pain, migraines, and addiction, although there are very few studies in children and adolescents. There is some evidence for its efficacy in treatment of mild to moderate depression and anxiety in adults, but again no research has been done in youth. Hypnotherapy has shown modest efficacy in treatment of anticipatory anxiety symptoms, headache, chronic pain, nausea and vomiting, migraines, hair-pulling and skin picking as well as compulsive eating and smoking cessation in adults. There is some clinical evidence for its efficacy in children and adolescents, and its safety is well established. Massage therapy has shown value in improving mood and behavior in children with ADHD, but not efficacy as a first-line treatment for ADHD symptoms. Chiropractic care, which is among the most commonly used alternative therapies, claims to be effective for the treatment of anxiety, depression, ADHD, behavioral problems of autism and even schizophrenia and bipolar disorder, but there is no significant scientific evidence to support these claims. And neurofeedback, which is a variant of biofeedback in which patients practice calming themselves or improving focus while watching an EEG has shown modest efficacy in the treatment of ADHD in children in early studies. It is worth noting that all of these therapies may be costly and not covered by insurance.
Perhaps the easiest alternative therapies to recommend are those with the lowest risk and lowest cost, which patients themselves learn to do and which have other health benefits. Exercise has a growing body of evidence for its concrete health benefits. Moderate exercise three times weekly has been shown to be as effective in treating mild to moderate depression in adults as SSRIs, and several smaller studies have demonstrated similar efficacy in adolescents with depression. In addition, exercise improves the quality and quantity of sleep and improves symptoms of anxiety. Along a similar vein, developing a regular meditation practice appears to improve the symptoms of multiple psychiatric conditions. One meta-analysis demonstrated that meditation had the same effect size for both anxiety disorders and depression in both adults and adolescents as antidepressants have. Studies of meditation also have shown promise in treating addiction and in improving measures of attention and concentration. Both exercise and meditation appear to improve health overall, are inexpensive, and have few if any negative side effects. Of course, helping a depressed patient find the motivation to begin and sustain a new practice is the main challenge. But if a family is considering alternative therapies that may be more passive, costly, and of uncertain benefit, it can be a wonderful opportunity to point out the effective, inexpensive alternative therapies immediately at their disposal.
Dr. Swick is an attending psychiatrist in the division of child psychiatry at Massachusetts General Hospital, Boston, and director of the Parenting at a Challenging Time (PACT) Program at the Vernon Cancer Center at Newton Wellesley Hospital, also in Boston. Dr. Jellinek is professor emeritus of psychiatry and pediatrics, Harvard Medical School, Boston. Email them at pdnews@frontlinemedcom.com.
Additional readings
1. Child Adolesc Psychiatr Clin N Am. 2013 Jul;22(3):375-80.
2. J Am Acad Child Adolesc Psychiatry. 2008;47(4):364-8.
3. J Am Acad Child Adolesc Psychiatry. 2011;50(10):991-1000.
4. J Am Acad Child Adolesc Psychiatry. 2014 Jun; 53(6):658-66.
5. J Am Acad Child Adolesc Psychiatry. 2016 Oct;55(10):S168-9.
Alternative therapies, from vitamins and supplements to meditation and acupuncture, have become increasingly popular treatments in the United States for many medical problems in the past few decades. In 2008, the National Institutes of Health reported that nearly 40% of adults and 12% of children had used “complementary or alternative medicine” (CAM) in the preceding year. Other surveys have suggested that closer to 30% of general pediatric patients and as many as 75% of adolescent patients have used CAM at least once. These treatments are especially popular for chronic conditions that are managed but not usually cured with current evidence-based treatments. Psychiatric conditions in childhood sometimes have a long course, and have effective but controversial treatments, as with stimulants for ADHD. Parents sometimes feel guilty about their child’s problem and want to use “natural” methods or deny the accepted understanding of their child’s illness. So it is not surprising that families may investigate alternative treatments, and such treatments have multiplied.
While there is evidence that parents and patients rarely discuss these treatments with their physicians, it is critical that you know what therapies your patients are using. You should focus on tolerance in the context of protecting the child from harm and improving the child’s functioning. If you have ever recommended chicken soup for a cold, then you have prescribed complementary medicine, so it is not a stretch for you to offer some input about the other alternative therapies your patients may be considering.
It is important to note that rigorous, case-controlled studies of efficacy of most alternative therapies are few in number and usually small in size (so any evidence of efficacy is weaker), and that the products themselves are not regulated by the Food and Drug Administration or other public body. This means that the family (and you) will have to do some homework to ensure that the therapy they purchase comes from a reputable source and is what it purports to be.
Many of the alternative therapies patients are investigating will be herbs or supplements. Omega-3 fatty acids are critical to multiple essential body functions, and are taken in primarily via certain foods, primarily fish and certain seeds and nuts. A deficiency in certain omega-3 fatty acids can cause problems in infant neurological development and put one at risk for heart disease, rheumatologic illness, and depression. Supplementation with Omega-3 fatty acids (eicosapentaenoic acid [EPA] and docosahexaenoic acid [DHA], specifically) has a solid evidence base as an effective adjunctive treatment for depression and bipolar disorder in adults. In addition, randomized, placebo-controlled, double-blind studies have demonstrated efficacy in treatment of children with mild to moderate ADHD at doses of 1,200 mg/day. There are some studies that have demonstrated improvement in hyperactivity in children with autism with supplementation at similar doses. These supplements have very low risk of side effects. They are a reasonable recommendation to your patients whose children have mild to moderate ADHD, and they want to manage it without stimulants.
Another alternative first-line psychiatric treatment patients may ask about is St. John’s Wort. Studies have demonstrated its moderate efficacy in the treatment of mild depression, but not in adolescents. It is worth noting that this supplement also has demonstrated potentially serious interactions with other medicines, including raising the risk of serotonin syndrome when combined with SSRIs and decreasing the efficacy of birth control. Another supplement, SAM-e (s-adenosyl-l-methionine), has demonstrated modest efficacy in small open-label studies in the treatment of depression, and has fewer side effects than St. John’s Wort. But its efficacy is not as robust as traditional antidepressants. N-acetyl cysteine, a protein that people usually get from their diets, is the treatment for acetaminophen overdose and carbon monoxide poisoning, and has been used in the treatment of amyotrophic lateral sclerosis and Alzheimer’s disease. There is growing evidence of its efficacy as a treatment for trichotillomania, compulsive nail biting, and compulsive skin picking, often associated with severe anxiety disorders such as obsessive compulsive disorder. It also has demonstrated efficacy as part of treatment for marijuana dependence, alongside behavioral therapy. Myoinositol, a sugar alcohol which can be produced by the body and is found in many foods, has been used at higher doses as a supplement in children and adolescents with bipolar disorder, as an adjunct to treatment with some promising results. When families are considering adding one of these supplements to improve the efficacy of treatment of a complex psychiatric illness, you should feel comfortable referring their questions to their psychiatrist.
Families also may be considering physical or mechanical treatments. Acupuncture has demonstrated efficacy in the treatment of fatigue and pain, migraines, and addiction, although there are very few studies in children and adolescents. There is some evidence for its efficacy in treatment of mild to moderate depression and anxiety in adults, but again no research has been done in youth. Hypnotherapy has shown modest efficacy in treatment of anticipatory anxiety symptoms, headache, chronic pain, nausea and vomiting, migraines, hair-pulling and skin picking as well as compulsive eating and smoking cessation in adults. There is some clinical evidence for its efficacy in children and adolescents, and its safety is well established. Massage therapy has shown value in improving mood and behavior in children with ADHD, but not efficacy as a first-line treatment for ADHD symptoms. Chiropractic care, which is among the most commonly used alternative therapies, claims to be effective for the treatment of anxiety, depression, ADHD, behavioral problems of autism and even schizophrenia and bipolar disorder, but there is no significant scientific evidence to support these claims. And neurofeedback, which is a variant of biofeedback in which patients practice calming themselves or improving focus while watching an EEG has shown modest efficacy in the treatment of ADHD in children in early studies. It is worth noting that all of these therapies may be costly and not covered by insurance.
Perhaps the easiest alternative therapies to recommend are those with the lowest risk and lowest cost, which patients themselves learn to do and which have other health benefits. Exercise has a growing body of evidence for its concrete health benefits. Moderate exercise three times weekly has been shown to be as effective in treating mild to moderate depression in adults as SSRIs, and several smaller studies have demonstrated similar efficacy in adolescents with depression. In addition, exercise improves the quality and quantity of sleep and improves symptoms of anxiety. Along a similar vein, developing a regular meditation practice appears to improve the symptoms of multiple psychiatric conditions. One meta-analysis demonstrated that meditation had the same effect size for both anxiety disorders and depression in both adults and adolescents as antidepressants have. Studies of meditation also have shown promise in treating addiction and in improving measures of attention and concentration. Both exercise and meditation appear to improve health overall, are inexpensive, and have few if any negative side effects. Of course, helping a depressed patient find the motivation to begin and sustain a new practice is the main challenge. But if a family is considering alternative therapies that may be more passive, costly, and of uncertain benefit, it can be a wonderful opportunity to point out the effective, inexpensive alternative therapies immediately at their disposal.
Dr. Swick is an attending psychiatrist in the division of child psychiatry at Massachusetts General Hospital, Boston, and director of the Parenting at a Challenging Time (PACT) Program at the Vernon Cancer Center at Newton Wellesley Hospital, also in Boston. Dr. Jellinek is professor emeritus of psychiatry and pediatrics, Harvard Medical School, Boston. Email them at pdnews@frontlinemedcom.com.
Additional readings
1. Child Adolesc Psychiatr Clin N Am. 2013 Jul;22(3):375-80.
2. J Am Acad Child Adolesc Psychiatry. 2008;47(4):364-8.
3. J Am Acad Child Adolesc Psychiatry. 2011;50(10):991-1000.
4. J Am Acad Child Adolesc Psychiatry. 2014 Jun; 53(6):658-66.
5. J Am Acad Child Adolesc Psychiatry. 2016 Oct;55(10):S168-9.
Alternative therapies, from vitamins and supplements to meditation and acupuncture, have become increasingly popular treatments in the United States for many medical problems in the past few decades. In 2008, the National Institutes of Health reported that nearly 40% of adults and 12% of children had used “complementary or alternative medicine” (CAM) in the preceding year. Other surveys have suggested that closer to 30% of general pediatric patients and as many as 75% of adolescent patients have used CAM at least once. These treatments are especially popular for chronic conditions that are managed but not usually cured with current evidence-based treatments. Psychiatric conditions in childhood sometimes have a long course, and have effective but controversial treatments, as with stimulants for ADHD. Parents sometimes feel guilty about their child’s problem and want to use “natural” methods or deny the accepted understanding of their child’s illness. So it is not surprising that families may investigate alternative treatments, and such treatments have multiplied.
While there is evidence that parents and patients rarely discuss these treatments with their physicians, it is critical that you know what therapies your patients are using. You should focus on tolerance in the context of protecting the child from harm and improving the child’s functioning. If you have ever recommended chicken soup for a cold, then you have prescribed complementary medicine, so it is not a stretch for you to offer some input about the other alternative therapies your patients may be considering.
It is important to note that rigorous, case-controlled studies of efficacy of most alternative therapies are few in number and usually small in size (so any evidence of efficacy is weaker), and that the products themselves are not regulated by the Food and Drug Administration or other public body. This means that the family (and you) will have to do some homework to ensure that the therapy they purchase comes from a reputable source and is what it purports to be.
Many of the alternative therapies patients are investigating will be herbs or supplements. Omega-3 fatty acids are critical to multiple essential body functions, and are taken in primarily via certain foods, primarily fish and certain seeds and nuts. A deficiency in certain omega-3 fatty acids can cause problems in infant neurological development and put one at risk for heart disease, rheumatologic illness, and depression. Supplementation with Omega-3 fatty acids (eicosapentaenoic acid [EPA] and docosahexaenoic acid [DHA], specifically) has a solid evidence base as an effective adjunctive treatment for depression and bipolar disorder in adults. In addition, randomized, placebo-controlled, double-blind studies have demonstrated efficacy in treatment of children with mild to moderate ADHD at doses of 1,200 mg/day. There are some studies that have demonstrated improvement in hyperactivity in children with autism with supplementation at similar doses. These supplements have very low risk of side effects. They are a reasonable recommendation to your patients whose children have mild to moderate ADHD, and they want to manage it without stimulants.
Another alternative first-line psychiatric treatment patients may ask about is St. John’s Wort. Studies have demonstrated its moderate efficacy in the treatment of mild depression, but not in adolescents. It is worth noting that this supplement also has demonstrated potentially serious interactions with other medicines, including raising the risk of serotonin syndrome when combined with SSRIs and decreasing the efficacy of birth control. Another supplement, SAM-e (s-adenosyl-l-methionine), has demonstrated modest efficacy in small open-label studies in the treatment of depression, and has fewer side effects than St. John’s Wort. But its efficacy is not as robust as traditional antidepressants. N-acetyl cysteine, a protein that people usually get from their diets, is the treatment for acetaminophen overdose and carbon monoxide poisoning, and has been used in the treatment of amyotrophic lateral sclerosis and Alzheimer’s disease. There is growing evidence of its efficacy as a treatment for trichotillomania, compulsive nail biting, and compulsive skin picking, often associated with severe anxiety disorders such as obsessive compulsive disorder. It also has demonstrated efficacy as part of treatment for marijuana dependence, alongside behavioral therapy. Myoinositol, a sugar alcohol which can be produced by the body and is found in many foods, has been used at higher doses as a supplement in children and adolescents with bipolar disorder, as an adjunct to treatment with some promising results. When families are considering adding one of these supplements to improve the efficacy of treatment of a complex psychiatric illness, you should feel comfortable referring their questions to their psychiatrist.
Families also may be considering physical or mechanical treatments. Acupuncture has demonstrated efficacy in the treatment of fatigue and pain, migraines, and addiction, although there are very few studies in children and adolescents. There is some evidence for its efficacy in treatment of mild to moderate depression and anxiety in adults, but again no research has been done in youth. Hypnotherapy has shown modest efficacy in treatment of anticipatory anxiety symptoms, headache, chronic pain, nausea and vomiting, migraines, hair-pulling and skin picking as well as compulsive eating and smoking cessation in adults. There is some clinical evidence for its efficacy in children and adolescents, and its safety is well established. Massage therapy has shown value in improving mood and behavior in children with ADHD, but not efficacy as a first-line treatment for ADHD symptoms. Chiropractic care, which is among the most commonly used alternative therapies, claims to be effective for the treatment of anxiety, depression, ADHD, behavioral problems of autism and even schizophrenia and bipolar disorder, but there is no significant scientific evidence to support these claims. And neurofeedback, which is a variant of biofeedback in which patients practice calming themselves or improving focus while watching an EEG has shown modest efficacy in the treatment of ADHD in children in early studies. It is worth noting that all of these therapies may be costly and not covered by insurance.
Perhaps the easiest alternative therapies to recommend are those with the lowest risk and lowest cost, which patients themselves learn to do and which have other health benefits. Exercise has a growing body of evidence for its concrete health benefits. Moderate exercise three times weekly has been shown to be as effective in treating mild to moderate depression in adults as SSRIs, and several smaller studies have demonstrated similar efficacy in adolescents with depression. In addition, exercise improves the quality and quantity of sleep and improves symptoms of anxiety. Along a similar vein, developing a regular meditation practice appears to improve the symptoms of multiple psychiatric conditions. One meta-analysis demonstrated that meditation had the same effect size for both anxiety disorders and depression in both adults and adolescents as antidepressants have. Studies of meditation also have shown promise in treating addiction and in improving measures of attention and concentration. Both exercise and meditation appear to improve health overall, are inexpensive, and have few if any negative side effects. Of course, helping a depressed patient find the motivation to begin and sustain a new practice is the main challenge. But if a family is considering alternative therapies that may be more passive, costly, and of uncertain benefit, it can be a wonderful opportunity to point out the effective, inexpensive alternative therapies immediately at their disposal.
Dr. Swick is an attending psychiatrist in the division of child psychiatry at Massachusetts General Hospital, Boston, and director of the Parenting at a Challenging Time (PACT) Program at the Vernon Cancer Center at Newton Wellesley Hospital, also in Boston. Dr. Jellinek is professor emeritus of psychiatry and pediatrics, Harvard Medical School, Boston. Email them at pdnews@frontlinemedcom.com.
Additional readings
1. Child Adolesc Psychiatr Clin N Am. 2013 Jul;22(3):375-80.
2. J Am Acad Child Adolesc Psychiatry. 2008;47(4):364-8.
3. J Am Acad Child Adolesc Psychiatry. 2011;50(10):991-1000.
4. J Am Acad Child Adolesc Psychiatry. 2014 Jun; 53(6):658-66.
5. J Am Acad Child Adolesc Psychiatry. 2016 Oct;55(10):S168-9.